I’ve experienced some synchronicity regarding waterfalls and Buddhism
recently, and I thought both of the following images were strong enough
to warrant mentioning here. Both, of course, deal with our ignoring the
fact of our own mortality, and what it means for how we live our brief
lives.
The first is a poem by Kay Ryan. It goes as follows:
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I'm curious, tho, about the fear. Like, I can understand fear of pain and/or suffering, and I'm right there with you on those, but fear of death? At least in theory, it's the big nothing. Of course, no one can say anything about it with authority, but I wouldn't think that being dead would be all that bad... Would it?
Fortunately, I can defer on that question, and I'm good at ignoring questions that can't be answered...
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But, I've had some throughout my life ... and I'm not even middle aged yet. So, I do live my life the way I want to. And i've had enough, well, other experiences that I have no fears and no doubts about what comes next. Eh, that's more than I usually say about this kind of stuff. Give me a call if you want to talk any more about it.
Mark
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I'm glad to hear you're living with that in the back of your mind, tho. The very idea of going through life unconsciously, without valuing it as it happens, makes me wiggy!
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And I don't see much point in obsessing over when one will kark it. When it happens, it happens, and if you're lucky it'll be over before you know it. I'd prefer that it takes me by surprise, rather than watch it inexorably approach like a slow-moving train!
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It's an odd thing; people seem to have feelings all over the map about it, which I guess is understandable since for most people it's something they have absolutely no first-hand experience with.
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It sounds like after the initial shock, you've kinda gone back and forth. In some ways, you're back to your old life, but in others, you've made changes to live a bit more the way you want to. I guess the big thing is being conscious while you're alive and making choices you're happy with.
Time... Yeah. That's a tough one that I struggle with, too. It's hard to have a wide breadth of interests, but so little time to enjoy them. The big thing is work, tho. That's the hard part. My brother just went part-time, and I could see the value in that. Ah, maybe someday...
I think I might have run into the comment length limit once, but forgot all about it. Frustrating, isn't it? ;^)
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It sounds like you've got a healthy outlook to me. That balance of planning versus enjoying today is a tough and very individual one, planning for a future that may never happen. But as long as you're somewhere in the middle, rather than at either extreme, I think that's healthy.
With the concerns over knowledge, planning, self-sufficiency, and vulnerability, it sounds like the larger issue for you is around control. That's a tough one, because there will probably come a time when you have to surrender to lack of control. But that's probably one of the hardest things to learn in life, and I can't say I'm much further along the path toward giving up control than you are.
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