'Stealthing' could be considered assault say experts

[soleiltropiques]

'Stealthing' could be considered assault say experts about secret removal of condom during sex

Paper in Columbia Journal of Gender and Law examines little-known practice some say is 'rape-adjacent'

Comments

[honorh]

My choice to be celibate is looking better and better.

[cherriesarered]

Wow, that is horrible. :( I would feel so confused and violated if someone did that to me.

[moonshaz]

I am reminded of an SVU episode where John Stamos played a guy who ran around deliberately impregnating as many women as possible, as often as possible. Anyone else remember that one? For some reason, I can't remember how it ended, but the Stamos character was every bit as much of an egocentric, self-absorbed douche bag as these guys sound like.

[senshicalico]

lol, it ended with one of the women stabbing him with a SCUBA KNIFE. (so his chest exploded.)

I kinda love that episode. So satisfying~

[senshicalico]

What really kills me about this is that it's presented as this NEW TREND~~~ all around social media when uh... my mom was warning me about this shit when I first got the sex talk twenty years ago. Because it had happened to her multiple times in the 70s and 80s.

Like... this ain't fucking new. Women have been facing this shit for DECADES.

Then again how many times have I had to hear from men about how ~terrible~ sex with condoms is? Shit, I live with my female partner and I'm still a mess of trust-issues wrt how men screwed me up years ago.

[wuvvumsoc]

I've also heard the term "reproductive abuse" used for it.

[wuvvumsoc]

Definitely! I could not agree more!