Apologies that all the UK content seems to come from the Guardian, haha. Also, One Direction are a UK pop-act formed through The X Factor and GAY is a big London gay club.
Is there only One Direction for G-A-Y?Visitors to London's gay district, Soho, may have been surprised on Saturday to see the streets thronging with hordes of young teenage
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Anyway, sassed him good. I think a lot of standard issue gay guys in these bar have a pretty limited idea of what a lesbian looks like.
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And last week we went out as lesbian stooges with a single gay male friend and I got IDed and searched and generally hassled by every bouncer while my gf who was less girly got passed through each time.
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I'm actually transitioning now and last year I had a Lady Gaga drag queen inform me that he had been completely convinced I was a guy until he saw me dancing and tried to give me passing advice. A Lady Gaga drag queen. COME ON!
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Also, I really miss G-A-Y on Tottenham Court Road :'(
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That really annoys me as well, but yeah - it's really hard to judge because a couple may very well be LGBT but...argh. I have been spoken to by creepy couples looking for someone for a threesome before as well.
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Anyway, this is indeed a thorny issue. I guess what I don't understand is the reasoning behind scheduling an act with broad appeal outside of your target demographic and yet expecting/hoping that only your target customers will show up. This just doesn't make any sense to me.
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No, nor me, your first point is the only way it makes sense. In that, he feels that way and so.... At least it wasn't an official policy!
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Maybe it's just an urban legend, but I wouldn't be totally surprised. Sorry about those guys, sound like arseholes :/. Idk, some of my straight friends say they go with a friend, or for the music or because it's "more interesting", whatever that means.
Same with male dominated. I used to go to a club which had two rooms with a corridor and the corridor led to the quieter room with the ladies loo and there was a drag queen on a booth in the corridor who would comment on the clothes/appearance/behaviour of the women going to the loo and it put me off going there.
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Eh, it happens, I've mostly got used to it whenever we go out together, but it's still freaking irritating. More "interesting"? Er...no, I have no idea what that means either.
That would put anyone off, I think :/ Because drag queens totally have the right to stand there and comment on what other people are wearing. /badstereotyping.
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I have a lot of conflicting feelings about queer space being for queer people and maybe allies, and about straight people appropriating it for their own comfort or entertainment, but at the same time, it's not like there's a 'gay test' and sexuality and gender is fluid so how would you even begin to enforce that. See above. Idk.
oh, and the misogyny of saying that as soon as teenage girls like something it's not 'cool enough' anymore - can just fuck right off.
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