Cause ontd_political wouldn't let me post this
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http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704111504576059713528698754.html A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically successful kids.
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the Chinese believe that the best way to protect their children is by preparing them for the future, letting them see what they're capable of, and arming them with skills, work habits and inner confidence that no one can ever take away.
but pretty much everything else in this article rubs me the wrong way. I find myself agreeing with some of the stuff she says but it's all so abrasive and she continually perpetuates the stereotypes that we've been faced with for so long and I hate that.
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Western parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions, supporting their choices, and providing positive reinforcement and a nurturing environment.
and this
Chinese believe that the best way to protect their children is by preparing them for the future, letting them see what they're capable of, and arming them with skills, work habits and inner confidence that no one can ever take away.
are mutually exclusive. They're not.
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Are my kids often held to standards Western kids wouldn't get held to? Sure. Are some of them abused? Unfortunately, yes. However, from what I've observed the majority of the kids have some free time, can choose their own extracurrics, and can watch TV or visit friends. What she's describing isn't "Chinese" or "Asian" parenting. It's "Amy Chua parenting."
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Yeah, she's putting down other Asians by embracing a stereotype, contributing to the idea that we're all pretty much the same -- and putting down other minorities for not being good enough. It's gross -_-
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I hope her book fails.
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