Ku Hye Sun Shares List Of Rules She Asked Ahn Jae Hyun To Follow During Their Marriage

[juhli]

On September 3, around 8 p.m. KST, Ku Hye Sun shared two photos on Instagram. Later, she added the caption, “Become a human,” which she then changed to, “All I really want is an apology

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[lulufairybubble]

If somebody gives me a list like this, they are getting served with divorce papers. I'm not a child and you aren't my mom.

[juhli]

Another scenario could have been that they both discussed it and wrote the list together....

[lulufairybubble]

Ugh yet another reason why I never want to get married.

[infj23]

I know the bitterness and the satisfaction from public humiliation she feels...but I wish she would walk away now and redirect her pain into someone/thing else other than him :(

[tsubaki874]

I mean I can see how writing out these rules seems a bit extreme, but some couples need it in plain black and white. I had to make a chore list for my husband because he couldn't remember what he needed to do after work, and he does just fine having something tangible to remind him. I guess this is a bit more than a chore list, but everything she's written down isn't unreasonable, motherly maybe.

[jasmineakaiumi]

I don't make a list for my bf (we live together), but I basically just remind him what needs to be done and it gets done. he's super proactive and great at doing stuff around the house, just forgetful. thinking of putting up a whiteboard of stuff that needs to get done during the week for both of us, because i forget too tbh haha

[daynr]

these are not chores, these are behavior rules, including listing violence.

[tsubaki874]

Half of the list is chores, that's why I talked about it being reasonable. If you think telling your partner to clean up after themselves is behavior controlling then we obviously have very different opinions and should just agree to disagree

[scionofawhisper]

We don't really know anything about their marriage or context of this stuff, or what was really going on between them. It's impossible to judge and really, why she's sharing this. -_-

[greasetastic_x]

I think that everything is pretty reasonable especially if he signed and agreed to it. You would think that some people would have the common knowledge/decency to follow most of this stuff but a lot of people don't.