I'm confused because in the text message she published herelf he does mention she gave him a press release and she didn't negate that from what I could read so I don't understand what's going on
The message from the agency (at least the first part) seemed quite fair Just stating they agreed to divorce. Period.
Divorce are never easy (I mean they can be, my dad had an easy divorce) but I wonder if maybe she was spooked by the sog song case Maybe things were going alrightish and after seeing the backlash she got scared? Which would be understandable
I'm just very confused because she's publishing a lot and he's saying quiet and thus she's not "helping her case" so to speak
But after she said he was gossiping about her with agency CEO (which is a woman) public seems siding with her. Which I honestly don't understand, because I can count on one hand people who never bitch about their SO to friends/colleagues, and that's the biggest fault she could come aside from "he won't talk to my mother".
I admit I'm not big fan of airing things in public and that make me bias against her, but I don't think his agency ever planned to bury her, because that would bring a lot more attention to their split and with his career on the rise it's the last thing he needs, Song-Song couple divorce showed that it tainted images of both of them although SGH was hit more by hate comments.
There's no way in all of this that she wouldn't be blamed. The women never have it easy in all this. Even the current doubts about her prove that no matter what she does she will be painted as a difficult woman.
Also people here are really down playing the cultural significance of "he won't talk to my mother". That is a real thing. People don't just marry a person, they marry a family too.
There's also the very real possibility that her mom might resent or blame her for it, thinking that she "let" it happen or asking questions like "why didn't you try this and that to keep him" which she'll never hear the end of and he could take one freaking day out of his schedule to take responsibility for all of this towards a woman he'll never have to see or talk to again for the rest of his life and save her a lifetime of misery. It's really sick that he won't even do this.
I don't understand howI'm getting so much info about them during their divorce when no one I followed seemed to care as much about them when they were a happy couple.
I don't think she's going to be hated just because knets are already taking her side about him badmouthing her and she seems to be the more successful/ popular one in the relationship. Posting about it first seemed to help her. The only way it can probably go wrong is if she was unfaithful or they can show that she wanted to pursue divorce first.
I may have seen too many dramas in my lifetime but I'm going to assume that the topic of breaking up was brought up before, she didn't want to go through with it and thought that if she initiated the divorce proceedings he would "snap out of it" and realize he wanted to stay with her but it didn't work so now she's screwed and wants to make him miserable.
Or maybe she got nervous after the Song Song divorce like benihime99 said. Have people been as invested in the Ku Ahn couple as they were in the Song Song couple?
Regardless of the reason, I'm sad for her because the public is going to shit on her no matter what :(
I kinda feel like he said he wanted a divorce, she was pissed hired her lawyer, drafted a statement and everything else but as she was doing all this really thought and decided she didn't want a divorce.
I just wish she would stop putting out things in a rush as she admitted. It seems, to me, like she's in a frenzy to put out what she wants to be seen before anything negative has really come out and it's working against her. This could of been a really quiet divorce since they both are at the same company
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The message from the agency (at least the first part) seemed quite fair
Just stating they agreed to divorce. Period.
Divorce are never easy (I mean they can be, my dad had an easy divorce) but I wonder if maybe she was spooked by the sog song case
Maybe things were going alrightish and after seeing the backlash she got scared? Which would be understandable
I'm just very confused because she's publishing a lot and he's saying quiet and thus she's not "helping her case" so to speak
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I admit I'm not big fan of airing things in public and that make me bias against her, but I don't think his agency ever planned to bury her, because that would bring a lot more attention to their split and with his career on the rise it's the last thing he needs, Song-Song couple divorce showed that it tainted images of both of them although SGH was hit more by hate comments.
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Even the current doubts about her prove that no matter what she does she will be painted as a difficult woman.
Also people here are really down playing the cultural significance of "he won't talk to my mother". That is a real thing. People don't just marry a person, they marry a family too.
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I don't think she's going to be hated just because knets are already taking her side about him badmouthing her and she seems to be the more successful/ popular one in the relationship. Posting about it first seemed to help her. The only way it can probably go wrong is if she was unfaithful or they can show that she wanted to pursue divorce first.
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Or maybe she got nervous after the Song Song divorce like benihime99 said. Have people been as invested in the Ku Ahn couple as they were in the Song Song couple?
Regardless of the reason, I'm sad for her because the public is going to shit on her no matter what :(
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I just wish she would stop putting out things in a rush as she admitted. It seems, to me, like she's in a frenzy to put out what she wants to be seen before anything negative has really come out and it's working against her. This could of been a really quiet divorce since they both are at the same company
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