mmmmmmmmmmMMMMMMMMMM M M M M wish people would stop pressuring ladies to get married before a certain age, if at all. what business is it of theirs whether she marries or not?
personally i would never get married bc it feels like a forced construct that would never be relevant to who i am and the way i live my life. i don't even think i'd consider a civil partnership.
same, i want to have kids around 30-35 because it's harder to get pregnant & have healthy children the older you are & i want to be there for my kids & see them grow up & everything.
plus if i have children in my 40s idk if i'll be able handle it physically/mentally & there will be a generation gap. i don't want to be in my 70s when my kids are in there early 30s.
"I don't want to rush or be forced into it." "It would be a pity to live my life in a rush when everything else is going so well." amazing
i personally never want to get married (or have kids) because i'm just not interested in it and there are things that i want to do that i will not give up for another person/people
Same here. I hate when people say "You just need to find the right person (sometimes they even say man...)" or "Does that mean you don't love your partner enough to marry them?" "Why don't you want children if you're a woman?" "But, who will take care of you when you're old?"
YES i hate that shit so much my dad is already bothering me abt grandkids (i'm 20......) and i've already told him a firm no multiple times but he's still waiting for me to change my mind lmao
who will take care of you when you're old? lmao as if most of people didn't just take their old parents to a nursery home instead of taking care of them themselves.
She is so beautiful, and apparently she seems to have a good head on her shoulders. I liked her answers: firm and polite.
And about the answers, if I find someone (or viceversa), I would like to marry, but not before 35, after that age seems to me the ideal time to get married (in an ideal world) and have kids. Besides, I don't mind having kids past 35, you can still conceive naturally, and certainly, I have still much to do.
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personally i would never get married bc it feels like a forced construct that would never be relevant to who i am and the way i live my life. i don't even think i'd consider a civil partnership.
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You know I don't really want to get married early or be rushed,
but I wish to have kids while young, because the older you are, less chances to get pregnant or have a healthy pregnancy.
I want to see my kids grow up and marry.
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plus if i have children in my 40s idk if i'll be able handle it physically/mentally & there will be a generation gap. i don't want to be in my 70s when my kids are in there early 30s.
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"It would be a pity to live my life in a rush when everything else is going so well."
amazing
i personally never want to get married (or have kids) because i'm just not interested in it and there are things that i want to do that i will not give up for another person/people
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my dad is already bothering me abt grandkids (i'm 20......) and i've already told him a firm no multiple times but he's still waiting for me to change my mind lmao
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lmao as if most of people didn't just take their old parents to a nursery home instead of taking care of them themselves.
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And about the answers, if I find someone (or viceversa), I would like to marry, but not before 35, after that age seems to me the ideal time to get married (in an ideal world) and have kids. Besides, I don't mind having kids past 35, you can still conceive naturally, and certainly, I have still much to do.
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