David Harbour Says Marriage to Lily Allen Is 'So Great'

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David Harbour Says Marriage to Lily Allen Is 'So Great': ‘We Grow Closer and Closer’ (Exclusive) https://t.co/fOnEnMkzU5
- People (@people) November 11, 2023

Remember two weeks ago when Lily Allen unfollowed husband David Harbour on Instagram and the Daily Mail reported that they were living separate lifes

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[tetrazzinichikn]

That’s definitely something that people in happy relationships say.

[sockymous]

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[misoras]

May they both remain miserable together 😌

[stf_ugh]

“it's nice for her to have her life and me to have my life and for us not to just annoy each other by being around all the time."

Is this supposed to be like a ~cool modern marriage or something lol like that doesn’t seem great…? But I’m not married so 🤷‍♀️

[sweetwaterlane]

It's giving me Farrah Abraham from Teen Mom saying about her two-year-old: “It’s healthy that we have a break, she has her own life and is doing her own thing, and I’m doing mine." 😬

[cosmic_starz]

Except it's really not the same at all- it's healthy and important for couples to have separate lives from each other to a degree and not become co-dependent or lose yourself completely in your partner.. but your child needs you in a different way- and certainly needs to be a priority in your life. (not that a partner shouldn't be a priority but you need space from each other from time to time)

[sweetwaterlane]

It's the context here that i'm comparing - they unfollow each other and reportedly haven't really been together in 3 months and now he's mentioning how they annoy each other when they're around too much and have their own lives. It's also good to have your own life from your child for your own sanity and for the child to develop social skills etc, but in the context of the people saying these things and what is otherwise buzzing about them not being around their significant other / not being around their child, I find them red flags.

[upanddisappear]

Maybe he could have used that time to help someone or work on his garden or something. I get being depressed, ive been depressed af my whole life but jeeze, you have resources.