I really want to know what world ontd lives in that they know everyone’s age irl. Y’all, I don’t know the age of most people in my life. You don’t ask people their age. Yes, once you start dating, it comes up. But this bizarre expectation that we know the age of everyone we interact with is weeeeeeird.
This is not directed at you but at ontd in general.
Large age gaps in relationships are criticized because it suggests a potential power imbalance. Plus it’s really gross to hear someone say “they make me feel young” or “they are an old soul” in regard to their partner.
I guess my question is when do people become “adults” then? Because I think a 27 year old can confidently decide to date someone older than them without being coerced/manipulated.
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2' height difference...ONTD approves?
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Y’all, I don’t know the age of most people in my life. You don’t ask people their age. Yes, once you start dating, it comes up. But this bizarre expectation that we know the age of everyone we interact with is weeeeeeird.
This is not directed at you but at ontd in general.
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And idk why lol I think since bohemian rhapsody has put me off him
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