I met my bff on the first day of high school and we decided to share a locker. We also went to uni together and I gave a toast at her wedding 12 years ago. I haven't seen her in ages and I miss her.
I've had a few best friends (none of which I am in contact with anymore) but I'm pretty sure I've never been anyone's best friend. well, fleetingly/circumstantially. as much as it makes me miserable as fuck to be always alone and have virtually no one in my life to turn to for anything but the most surface-level, banal shit, I'm honestly just a really miserable person to be around thanks to just like, unmitigated depression and it's not fair to inadvertently drag someone else down with me like I always do, eventually. I can keep up the facade to a point but I can't keep the mask on forever
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Bro, me too! Last best bud I made in college was 8 fucking years ago and if I encountered any of the other ones it would be too awkward for all involved. And otherwise I'm lazy and negative and have no hobbies and even friendly people don't really want to hang out with me.
As far as keeping in touch with people you knew earlier, I really think that longevity eases relationships more than actual closeness. No one truly wants to know another person.
I started at my job and a few months later a person that used to work there returned and her boss told her you have to go meet ritaamber she is a weirdo you will love her. Lol she came down and said I was told you are weird and that we should be friends so hello you wanna go look for rocks with me. That was the start of my strongest friendship ever and my love of rock hounding. I love the trips and finding shiny things with her. In a weird way I think our friendship will be one of the great loves of my life.
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As far as keeping in touch with people you knew earlier, I really think that longevity eases relationships more than actual closeness. No one truly wants to know another person.
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