helps yourselves

[oh_snap]

If you know me, you know I am pretty easily influenced by "self-help" books. I watched Oprah daily when growing up, my mother works in a library &I am the type that likes making to-do lists &reading the articles in magazines that tell you how you too can get it right, right now

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[keepmeguessing]

what is the significance of sleeping facing the door? i really want to know because for a while i slept facing it and now i am facing away from it, but it really scares me to wake up and have somebody looking you full in the face as opposed to just hearing their voice and having them behind you. also, at parties i am both "the funny guy" and "the girl who drinks too much"

[oh_snap]

you have to be in a position in bed where you can see the door- see whoever walks in etc. It helps put you in control. But I don't think you want to sleep with the bed directly toward the door
You also cannot sleep with the bed directly phasing a mirror because that will suck all of the energy out of you and into the mirror.

If youre trying to attract a lover you should also not sleep with the bed pushed up against the wall because you want it to be equal on both sides. Like "here is your nighstand, here is my nighstand" etc.

It's also important not to have storage under the bed and to keep the bed tidy. You dont want stagnant energy!!

[keepmeguessing]

well i have space around both sides of my bed, there is no mirror in my room at all, but the head of it is against the wall that the door is on and i can either be facing the door or the window based on which end i sleep on.

i am always worried about where to put my trash can ever since i read bridget jones' diary and she had a trash can in the 'supportive friends' corner and her gay friend simon went missing. does it say anything about that?

[withoutform]

holy fuck, i do everything wrong. HOW CAN YOU LIVE IN NEW YORK AND NOT HAVE STORAGE UNDER YOUR BED??!!?!!?!? clearly feng shui doesn't understand.