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Mar 10, 2009 15:53

IT'S SPREADING LIKE HERPES. And I actually do this one a little too often but

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anonymous March 10 2009, 20:52:30 UTC

when I'm hurt, like truly emotionally wounded, I don't know what to do. I spend so much time acting tough and competent that when I actually break down and really need the help of someone else, I feel like it makes my friends uncomfortable. To the point where they either can't or don't want to help me. Then, despite the amount of friends I do have, I feel completely alone.

obtains March 11 2009, 01:24:02 UTC

I would try... explaining this to them? I mean if you are naturally a strong person who is independent and can take care of yourself, it's really really hard for your friends to cope with it when you're hurt. I mean, it doesn't mean they don't care, they just aren't used to it. But perhaps what you need to explain to them is that there will always be times when you need support. No matter how strong you are, you're going to need someone to lift you up.

It's okay to lean on people. Friends are there to help you through difficult situations. Communicate with them that though it might be really awkward because you are normally strong, sometimes you need a person to help you out. I know it's hard when you're normally so strong but don't feel alone. They might not all understand, but I am sure someone will realize that no matter how strong, we all have to show weakness at some point. It's within human nature to need people and to rely on them. Just because a few have forsaken you doesn't mean they all will.

anonymous March 10 2009, 21:17:27 UTC

My little sister has herpes. SHE'S ONLY 15 WTF

obtains March 11 2009, 01:26:11 UTC

Wow that's rough. I mean, herpes is something that you can never really get rid of but it is a little easier to deal with as time passes. At least it wasn't anything more serious and life threatening. I'm sorry to hear that that has happened to your sister. I hope she's holding out. It's hard for anyone no matter what age, but 15 is really rough.

I don't judge though man. It's 15, yes, but sometimes shit like that happens and it's better not to point fingers and blame but to try and cope with the situation.

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obtains March 10 2009, 21:56:27 UTC

FUCK YEAH MO FUCKER.

anonymous March 11 2009, 01:37:23 UTC

I think I might be in love with him at this point.

Trying to deny this fact, though, because I know he doesn't feel the same way.

And I'd rather not have my heart broken before it's even had the chance to be whole.

obtains March 11 2009, 01:57:41 UTC

How do you know he doesn't? Have you talked to him about it? I mean you never know, if he hasn't said anything on the point then why not risk the chance? Trust me, hun, it's a scary thing to really like or even love someone and realize the sentiment isn't returned, but it's not all a lost cause. There will always be other people and other opportunities, but even if it's a long shot just try it out. You never know, things might go in your favor! And if they don't, well the human being is a lot stronger than people think. We can take lots of pain, both emotional and physical. You can build a wall around your heart and make sure to seal up all the cracks, and continue to build up a defense, but it can shatter just like that for someone you care about. It's natural, and it happens and all we can do is keep going.