We may make it through the war if we make it through the night...

[obliviousally]

Last night, my mother called to let me know my grandmother was put on life support and has a feeding tube

Comments

[keeperofdreams]

I've told you this before and I'm going to tell you again: your mom's an adult and any mistakes she makes are on her own head, in that sort of situation. You can be there for her, give her a shoulder and a sympathetic ear, but you can't control what stupid things she does. You can only hope that maybe, this time, she won't fuck things up and has learned from her past mistakes.

But then I'm a calloused, emotionless son of a bitch so take my previous statement as you will.

[obliviousally]

Oh, I completely agree.

I just don't want to deal with the stress that she causes me when she's like that, is what I'm saying.

[keeperofdreams]

The only thing you can really do then, is to quietly tell her what she's doing, and possibly leave if it comes down to that. Don't be an enabler, I suppose?