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Aug 25, 2003 19:17

Dear Not Dr Mandy

If someone falls out of love with you.. were they ever in love with you?

Signed, shattered

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theothermandy August 27 2003, 05:47:50 UTC
I think the answer's are awesome!

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xospanishgrlxo August 25 2003, 19:34:51 UTC
:0( It doesn't necessarily mean they're out of love with you. I don't know exactly what your situation was... but if you two were going out, and he/she broke up with you, they must have had a good reason. Otherwise all I can say is people change.
I was friends with this kid for a long time and we ended up hooking up one night..and the next day he said it meant nothing like that. I have a feeling he always had feelings for me though in some way maybe not as much as I did. Just sometimes, guys are immature and/or don't know how to express themselves.
If I knew more about your situation I'd be able to help you, but that's a very broad question that could be answered in many ways.

By the way, I'm not Mandy lol...I just saw that nobody answered you yet and I was interested in your question. :0)

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the science of love katydid459 August 25 2003, 21:30:25 UTC
when someone "falls in love" they get an increase of serotonin thus creating a chemical jolt to the brain. increases in serotonin create all those lovely feelings people get when they are "in love." what most people don't realize is that excess serotonin is also responsible for various mental illnesses. being in love will make you crazy so to speak. my point is that people who think they are in love are quite possibly just having a chemical imbalance which leads them to think they are in love. when those chemicals are given time to settle down people may realize that they were not in love, but still do love the person. i think that if someone is truly in love with you then it is impossible to fall out of love. things can change, but true love never ceases due to circumstances. don't forget though that it is very possible to love someone without being IN LOVE with them.

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phishi August 25 2003, 22:28:23 UTC
Technically, To fall out of love with someone you would have had to been inlove with them or love them..

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