I'm threatening. Two, count that two, girls have now texted me who i never talked to before afraid I was taking their man away. One okay, it's her...two.....I think I should just not talk to guys anymore.
Maybe you should talk to your friends who are involved with these girls? I mean, they obviously have a vested interest in maintaining their friendship with you (or should if they're your friends) and might be able to talk to their girlfriends about this and get to the meat of the problem so it can be fixed.
Either way, it's not your fault the girls involved are insecure. At some point, they will need to learn not to feel threatened by other women. And if your guy friends have the courage to bring that up with them, now could be that time.
On another note, take it as a compliment. They wouldn't be afraid of losing a boyfriend to just anyone after all. If the women involved didn't think you were a better choice, they wouldn't be worried, whether you're interested in the guys or not. Perhaps it's an inconvenient compliment, but try to look at the good in it, and use it to reaffirm how awesome you are.
I hope things work out for you. Let me know if you want to talk or anything. Good luck.
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Either way, it's not your fault the girls involved are insecure. At some point, they will need to learn not to feel threatened by other women. And if your guy friends have the courage to bring that up with them, now could be that time.
On another note, take it as a compliment. They wouldn't be afraid of losing a boyfriend to just anyone after all. If the women involved didn't think you were a better choice, they wouldn't be worried, whether you're interested in the guys or not. Perhaps it's an inconvenient compliment, but try to look at the good in it, and use it to reaffirm how awesome you are.
I hope things work out for you. Let me know if you want to talk or anything. Good luck.
-Nick
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