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[call_me_lovey]

Hiya,

I'm nearly 30 & I've recently moved out. It's a small care home which is very good - yes I know I said this would never happen but, well, things do)

As someone said, I’m now finding out who * I* am; i'm not just my parents' daughter anymore.

I believe I may like a little from column A & a little from column B. I've never had *actual* sex

Comments

[cdaae]

On number 3, I don't think it would be at all legal for them to ask you to leave on those grounds. That would be massively discriminatory.

[zandperl]

That depends on the state AFAIK. A good place to start though is that the home probably has a charter and/or policies about overnight guests. Read the house rules and see what they say, and look up your state's laws about discrimination based on sexual orientation.

And then, even if your house has no rules against same-sex overnight guests, and even if your state does consider sexual orientation a protected class, talk to your caregivers and other friends in the house and see what the actual practice is there. Just because something's officially allowed doesn't mean that they won't try and kick you out anyway, and then it's on you to find another place and sue the old one. See what the actual atmosphere is like in practice, and decide what you're willing to fight for. If you decide not to fight this house, you could look for other places to live and/or do any overnight stays at your potential partner's house or a hotel instead (if those are feasible options in your case).

[cdaae]

Her userinfo says she's in the UK though, and I'm pretty certain it would be absolutely illegal here.