Oh, this week... I don't know if the planets have aligned with a specific purpose to make me extra-sensitive, but I've been cranky with fandom A LOT.
Cut into individual rants for your masochistic reading convenience. Although seriously, I wouldn't read this. I'm just relieved I fucking wrote it down. BAH FUCKING HUMBUG.
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On people treating celebs like objects - not to be confused with objectifying celebs )
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I feel the same way about physical proximity and awareness of the difference between image and person, but you're right - it doesn't seem to be typical. And oh, the presumed friendship is... well, arguably not as bad, but just as oblivious.
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Uhura fangirls and some witch-hunting S/U fans? Different story.
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I think it's time I start drafting that STXI love post... :D
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And personally, that's what happened to me with regards to Uhura (and it's something that has happened to my friends as well, even non-Americans who aren't even in the fandom). I love Uhura in TOS just fine (the duet with Spock? beyond awesome), but when I think of XI!Uhura, I kind of have to internally roll my eyes.
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As for Uhura-bashing and Pine-stalking -- ugh. I always have higher hopes for fandom than I do for humanity in general, so times like this are doubly disappointing and upsetting.
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The STXI fandom has been pretty happy-go-lucky in my experience so far, which is why a few of these incidents taking place in the same week really threw me. I'm trying to focus on the positive, though. Massive love post in the works as we speak!
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I've been a fangirl- but that was back in the days of the Pony Express, so nothing much came of it! And today, in my more -ahem- mature life-stage, I treat celebs the way I would like be treated myself- with dignity and respect.
As a result, I've had delightful encounters with celebs and famous people of all sorts. I work closely with powerful people in state government, which has helped to temper the disconnect between the person and their title or role. They appreciate being treated like people not objects. I'd treat Chris Pine or Zachary Quinto or Leonard Nimoy or George Takei the same way I would treat my state Governor, or the Speaker of the House, or any of the senior senators I work with daily ( ... )
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I was among those who wouldn't look at what was presumably the pap video of Zach, but once in the know, I was impressed by the idea (well, outside of freaking out his fans). It's terrific that he's using that part of his life, as annoying as it might be, for something creative and constructive; but it can't be fun getting followed and photographed every time you walk your dog. Stil, he certainly seems to be dealing with it better than his co-star. (Thanks for that link btw - awww, ZQ, can you be ANY CUTER?!? I don't think so!)
Speaking of Uhura hate: here's a really powerful post about what ( ... )
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As far as pap photos and vids go, I do not actively go looking for them, but if one is posted, I will do something I've called 'witnessing'- stuff down my dislike of the acquisition and look at the image(s) in a dispassionate way. If a huge stink is brewing, I want to see what the image says, not the cloud around it. That was how I was able to ascertain that the steak and butcher ZQ vids were clever fakes, and not actual harassment. I knew ( ... )
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtJpCATKdCo&feature=related
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