Let's turn the cuddling poll sideways. As a reminder the 4 activities are: cuddling/spooning/sleeping together, kissing/petting, playing, and sex
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Can you rank some or all of these activities from least to most intimate, even partially? (ex: "Sex and kissing are both more intimate than cuddling.")
1. sex 2. cuddling/spooning/sleeping together 3. kissing/petting 4. playing
but sometimes "playing" can be all of the above as well, so it gets a little fuzzy. I am using play to mean the most basic form of play.
Are some of them prerequisites for others? (ex: "I won't kiss someone unless we also cuddle.")
Being a straight dom/top that does not switch, there are a lot of women I would do sex/sleeping/kissing with that I would not play with. There are also some women I might play with I would not do sex, or cuddle with. I have different needs I want from each different person. I also find some types of play much easier if I have no emotional attachment to the person. For other types of play I need a very strong connection.
What combinations do you typically do? (ex: "Just cuddling, with friends; just playing, with play parters; everything, with people I'm dating.")
1. sex
2. cuddling/spooning/sleeping together
3. kissing/petting
4. playing
but sometimes "playing" can be all of the above as well, so it gets a little fuzzy. I am using play to mean the most basic form of play.
Are some of them prerequisites for others? (ex: "I won't kiss someone unless we also cuddle.")
Being a straight dom/top that does not switch, there are a lot of women I would do sex/sleeping/kissing with that I would not play with. There are also some women I might play with I would not do sex, or cuddle with. I have different needs I want from each different person. I also find some types of play much easier if I have no emotional attachment to the person. For other types of play I need a very strong connection.
What combinations do you typically do? (ex: "Just cuddling, with friends; just playing, with play parters; everything, with people I'm dating.")
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