I meant to mention this when I posted about my leaving the UK anniversary the other day (which I got wrong by a day in the end as well
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I think it's quite a common thing when you've lost someone, or feel the lack of someone. I know for ages after I stopped talking to him I kept seeing people I thought were my dad, and more recently I've seen Stef in other people. At first it seemed to be whole people that looked *just* like him; more recently it's dwindled to particular expressions or body movements in people. The sensation disappears over time, but it is disconcerting to start with!
It is just like that. I've just never had it on such a grand scale before, especially as it's includes people I've barely even thought of in years, like former colleagues.
Perhaps it's because you miss the UK on a grand scale too? So your brain is showing you a pattern of everyone you ever met here. Did you get anything similar when you moved to the UK from Australia the first time?
No, not really, but then I didn't live near any of my friends at the time, as most of them were already overseas or somewhere else in the country, and I wsan't near my family either. And I was young and excited and totally focused on looking forward, and didn't even think twice about missing people.
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Goths look the same the world over. And so do lesbians! It's especially disconcerting when there are roomfuls of them...
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