Change of plans?

[ninabrujaha]

I've admitted two things to myself recently. One, that I probably have a mild case of postpartum depression and I should probably do something about it. Two, that I know what I want to "be when I grow up". It's just that, now that I know, I'm not sure what to do about it

Comments

[trempnvt]

That's cool.

Unsolicited advice that you're obviously free to ignore: Maybe it would be more financially feasible to first become a doula, work as a doula to make money, and then become a midwife? I don't really know what doula training is like, but I'm pretty sure it's less intensive/expensive than nursing school (or whatever the alternative is).

[ninabrujaha]

I forgot the other hindrance to my plan: a small child at home who needs me at night. Doula training I think is a year course. I could do the training in any case to see how I like it.

[mirideee]

that seems sensible. and well done for having an aim in life -even if it seems impossible and lala, sometimes I wish I had more motivation

[conundrum1]

Definitely take care of your mental health. You need to feel good so that you can be the best mommy for your baby. Feel better!

[adidi]

nsync--best.

idk anything about ppd--psychologist?
omgz midwife. you'd be a good one.

[ninabrujaha]

Why do you think so?

[adidi]

you're not squeamish, you're friendly and you'd be reassuring to a first-timer. i would trust the things you have to say.

[ninabrujaha]

Would you trust me if you didn't know me?

[abbydabbydooby]

wow. if this is something you are really passionate about, i think it's definitely worth it to find a way to pursue it! after all, we're talking about the rest of your life here!

also, better late than never.