Comments | nightshaderose: quick update

nightshaderose

quick update

Dec 21, 2005 12:17

This is officially the sickest fall/winter I've ever had. This is the fourth-and-a-half time I've been sick, and it's only just now half-time (I say "and 1/2" because the stress sick from last week it trying really hard to become a sinus infection). Usually I'm only sick once or twice the whole winter ( Read more... )

foster cats, polyamory, work, boys, health, moving, drama, humane society

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scarletdragon December 21 2005, 19:16:29 UTC

*hugs*

Sometimes I wish I was brave enough to do something about this crazy job I'm in... I LOVE programming... but some stuff is ridiculous out here (usually dealing with Upper management-ish type stuffs).

for my fiber artist friends... arthurthedented December 22 2005, 01:30:32 UTC

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belle_vivre December 22 2005, 15:35:44 UTC

is Zeus part Maine Coon? he looks it. Retail sucks, I did it once for two months and never shall again. We are thinking of getting Daisy a kitten (and I say a kitten because she adjusts better to kittens than adult cats) she's home all day by herself- she needs someone to keep her company. We're moving to my place by February 1st, so, sometime after that... will you let me know if you know of any likely litters? Mitchell wants a black cat, but I dont have any particular needs, other than it be happy and healthy.

todfox December 23 2005, 01:47:34 UTC

We do resist the term primary and don't choose to use it for ourselves, but I believe (based on the discussions she and I have had) that we both recognize that aspects of that term do fit our relationship. I think (speaking for myself but trying to include my understanding of her thoughts) that the fact that some aspects fit is one of the major reasons we don't use the term -- while some aspects fit, the term has a whole set of preconceived notions associated with it, many of which don't fit the mold. I think a big difference is that while different relationships naturally entail different levels of involvement in each others lives, we don't actively craft our relationship with any hierarchy in mind. A lot of 'primary' relationships are created with the intention of being and remaining primary whereas we try to let our relationships find a natural level on their own. We don't consider ourselves a 'couple'* either, unlike many who identify their relationships as "primary", but rather as individuals who date separately, as 'free agents ( ... )