(Untitled)

[nicosian]

Today I'm tired. I can't post on reddit, he reads. I'm tired of feeling like a jobless failure. Tired of him coming home pissy and surly from work and yeah it sucks to telecommute after hours but please take it out on me

Comments

[countessof_roth]

You are not a horrible human being. You are an exhausted mom. And as far as the weight gain- STOP being so damn hard on yourself.

You had the pregnancy from hell. With pretty much every fucking complication that exists known to man that could affect a pregnant woman, you had. And after that you had the delivery from hell. Major surgery with general anesthesia.

CUT YOURSELF SOME SLACK. I didn't even begin to get serious about weight loss until i was a year post partum, and I had a relatively OK pregnancy with zee (minus the HG that thank G-d went away by 20 weeks) and an easy peasy delivery. And i had a lot more to lose than you, and my health was in serious danger.

[dayglow]

What she said.