Why "Nice Guys" Finish Last

Jan 31, 2012 13:08


The following post is based on too many conversations I've had with some male acquaintances in the past few weeks. Conversations where I had to provide man-training and swing the cluebat.

Ladies, I'm gonna need you all to step out of the room for a second. I need to have a sitdown with the menz.  And by sitdown I mean apply boots to asses. There's ( Read more... )

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sissyhiyah February 1 2012, 15:48:30 UTC
The grin. It's so wide it hurts.

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yaseen101 February 1 2012, 18:06:06 UTC
I used to help people a lot when I was a child and even overcompensated at times because I desired companionship and friends.

Even as a kid I had the notion that I had to be a REAL MAN (someone genuinely awesome and smart) in order to impress or attract the girls because a lot of women I knew then were smart and competent and above me. Of course I did fall into the trap thinking that if I stood there women will just come to me.

There is one girl I have been wanting to meet. I couldn't approach her, so it (partly) motivated me to undertake a journey that turned my whole life upside down. But since it was my own decision and she wasn't a part of it, I don't blame her for what happened. But I do hope that one day I can meet her again so that I can tell her how much she meant to me back and maybe have a laugh over it.

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yaseen101 February 1 2012, 18:27:32 UTC
Also, I have say: I really hate the dogged nice guy types that gets the powerful female hero/villain (or gets to narrate the infinitely better hero's story; I'm looking at you Mr. Nobody Man in the first Hellboy movie). I'm looking at the screen and going 'Oh c'mon Kim Possi....I mean woman! you can do better than a wimp like that ( ... )

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sisterspooky February 5 2012, 21:39:24 UTC
*claps*

I hate that since "suddenly" becoming of interest to blokes (i.e. when i wasn't fat anymore) it was these "nice guys" with lack of common decency that ever gave me the time of day.

thus i'm single

:(

signed a "nice girl"

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