Sooo yesterday my close friend was proposed to by her long-time boyfriend. This will be two (three if you count
n4nuk4 ) friends who have gotten engaged or married in about a year. Which is cool. I mean it's awesome, but I have this one little problem...
"Sooo.... You're next right? When are you and Ziggy getting married?"
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If you like it then you should have put a ring on it )
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Anyway, sorry if I went off on a bit of a tangent there. I'm just glad to know that there are other people out there in the world that think these things through before doing anything. You shouldn't feel bad about it. And you shouldn't feel pressured.
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I agree, it's so nice to know someone else feels the same way <3 I'm more annoyed then anything else, especially since statistics say that women are like 14% more likely to get married every time one of their gal pals get married. I'm beginning to think they just get married to shut the nagging gal pals up!
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my dumbass brother is already talking about moving in and marrying this girl he s known for a month. love makes people do stupid shit. >
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And thanks. I know I'm doing the right thing for me, but I'm getting so tired of getting shit about it.
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I get what you mean about the whole commitment thing, and that's exactly why I want the reverse for myself. People are always like "Well, you can be engaged and not get married any time soon," but I can't make that kind of commitment without being 100% certain about what I'm getting into. I need contingency plans, and I need an out if this relationship (God forbid) turns out to be something that isn't good for me.
But thaaank you <3 I do feel very confident in our relationship. And yeah, the whole sex ball of yarn is one we've just baaaarely looked at, so it's still this huge thing we would have to unravel. And also very important... just not one we can work on right ( ... )
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SERIOUSLY RIGHT? Even worse is most of my friends aren't even going to college and work minimum wage jobs. HOW DO YOU EXPECT TO GET MARRIED ON $8.50 AN HOUR?!? It's even crazy to get married right out of college, I have no idea why people do that to themselves. Love is not enough. Love does not pay for weddings ladies.
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