Comments | negroyella: FLIST loving u

negroyella

FLIST loving u

Oct 16, 2006 22:25

Hello out there. My friends list is so dead. Most people have gone and unfriended me in the past month.. a little sad since some of them were people I kinda thought were my friends. The few people left don't talk to me anymore either. (Give for 'you know who you are' ) I don't really understand why and it's a little lonely. No one seems ( Read more... )

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blueberryz October 17 2006, 02:47:14 UTC

I know the feeling too.

I am still interested in reading your LJ. Its just that uni is taking so much of my time these days. Sorry.

negroyella October 17 2006, 03:01:55 UTC

Already intended to keep you. =) Believe me, I know how it is to be busy.

It just feels like a lot of people have seriously changed... I used to be so close with these particular people and these days we're like, years apart. It feels sad but it's like, I really need to let go.

cjmarsicano October 17 2006, 02:51:28 UTC

I am hopeful/confident that you won't cut me. I like seeing your posts be they pics or text. :)

negroyella October 17 2006, 03:03:35 UTC

Duh! It's more like, it's a massive cut of people I really don't want to cut.. I don't really know what to think anymore. They're the ones who (were) amoung some of the closest to me. =(

I guess in a way it leads into more time/room for new friends and people in my life. People like you and Miyu rock my world.

cjmarsicano October 17 2006, 04:41:30 UTC

*HUGS*

eponine84 October 17 2006, 03:02:05 UTC

Please don't unfriend me! I do enjoy reading your LJ Marlena, I just totally suck at commenting these days due to massive time constraints. *huge hugs* I'll try to be better about it, promise.

negroyella October 17 2006, 03:05:30 UTC

I wouldn't unfriend you! You, Rach, Liz (even though she's hardly on) are my girls! I know a lot of people are super busy these days so I never -expect- comments from people. I think it's much less about that than it is seeing some people change over the years.. and it's like, I keep wondering "where did so-and-so go" and I realize they've been there all along.. just not the same way I remembered them. It sucks letting go.

saitou_null October 17 2006, 03:59:28 UTC

:-( Yeah, I have the same feeling that maybe people aren't interested in reading my entries any more. (^^; Or maybe that people have changed. Some of my friends have moved to Mixi as well, so LJ isn't as active as it used to be. Maybe people have just grown up and now they have become busy with well, living their life and working and doing stuff in "the real world". It's weird how much less time I spend online now actually interacting with others compared to when I was in high school and my undergraduate years. What happened? *~*

I enjoy your photo posts! I have just been keeping a low profile since I haven't been feeling well (more like feeling blue than feeling sick, though I have to be careful before that happens!).

I hope you have been well! Please take care. :D

crypthanatopsis October 17 2006, 04:06:02 UTC

Ehhh, I'm sorry. I know I should keep bugging you about getting together, but anymore it seems like I get home after work and just crash. And weekends it's usually family stuff.

Sorry I haven't been saying anything of interest lately, or responding to your posts. I don't know what to say to most of them except "I don't know anything about photography, and can't really tell if that's cool/good/whatever". But man if it makes you happy just go with it.

Sorry you've been sick lately too. It seems like one of us or the other is always under the weather.