When I was kid my mother wasn't too good on praise. Even though I was an only child I always felt like I wasn't the favorite. She made me feel like the ugly little black girl.
Now I'm a mom and I find myself saying all the time, I love you Cookie. or You're my favorite Cookie in the whole wide world. And other stuff like that
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There are ways to give constructive feedback without hurting kids' feelings, but most parents aren't careful enough about that.
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I never felt like I was good enough for anything growing up and this was despite having loving parents. It wasn't until I talked to my mother as an adult and discovered the hidden truth that I had apparently blocked from my memory. My mother was quite good at cutting me up and undermining my self-confidence apparently. She mentioned one case when I told her I was going to try out for the football team in highschool (I never recall ever wanting to, but anyway) and she said her response was "Why are you going to be the football?" I rest my case.
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