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Nov 26, 2003 00:19

Post anything that you want, and post it anonymously. Anything. A story, a secret, a confession, a fear, a love -- anything. Be sure to post anonymously and honestly. Post twice if you'd like. Then, put this in your LJ to see what your friends (and perhaps others who you don't even realize read your LJ) have to say. ;)

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anonymous November 26 2003, 09:09:40 UTC

Theres things in my life that I just don't understand! Why do all my friends get the guys? what do they have that I don't? is it that I'm not pretty enough? or what? sometimes when I'm around them I feel like I'm not as close as we used to be because they all have boyfriends and here I am stuck in the cold. I want someone to love me and I want to be loved. When they go out on weekends they ask me to come along but really I don't want to cause I hate being the 3rd wheel or the 5th wheel tag along and I think that they do it beacuse they feel sorry for me? I know that I have wonderful friends but sometimes I just feel like I'm nobody when I'm around them. They are always talkin' about there boyfriends or their boyfriends problems all I have to say to them is be thankful you have a boyfriend. I want to be there for my friends when they are in need of a friend but sometimes I just don't even want to be around them.......

-one confused girl

one confused girl anonymous November 26 2003, 11:04:42 UTC

i'm feelin tha same thing u r. all my friends have their guys and i'm left n tha cold. often bein the 3rd wheel or whatever. somethin that has helped me is not lookin for love. when u start lookin, u never seem to find what u r lookin for. and if u look too hard, it never seems to come about. tha best advise that i can give u is just have fun and mr. perfect will come when the time is ready. u don't need a guy to find happiness. often u have tha best times with your girl friends.

hope i could help

Re: one confused girl anonymous November 26 2003, 13:46:52 UTC

thanks you did, you helped me alot!!

anonymous November 26 2003, 14:49:05 UTC

This is crazy.. I've never told anyone this! I was at a friends house not too long ago, and there was drinking going on.. and there was this guy there.. we talked a little through out the night.. but then people started going to sleep.. and it left us there.. alone basically. He made me do things with him... 'sexual favors' I guess you could call them. I didn't want to.. at all.. He made me! I see him out sometimes and he talks to me.. acting like he done nothing wrong. I don't know what to do about it.. I can't prove it.. and no one would believe me if I did tell them. needless to say, I don't party anymore.

anonymous November 26 2003, 18:45:34 UTC

Tell someone! He is really disrespectful if he makes you do that kind of stuff. That is not right unless you are married. Tell him how you felt about it, maybe he won't do it the next time.

anonymous November 26 2003, 22:11:15 UTC

How is it right if you're married? It's still forced & still wrong.
Nonetheless..yes, you should tell someone. Whether it be him or someone else, get it out in the open. That's not right, man.

anonymous November 26 2003, 22:20:38 UTC

i disagree! if you think that no one will believe you, what's the point in telling someone? you risk being humiliated, especially if he lies and says that nothing like that happened. the only bad thing about not telling someone is that the same thing that happened to you, might end up happening to someone else. all i know is that you live and learn. you learn from you MISTAKES. if it happens once, it was a mistake. if the same things happens twice, you knew what would end up happening but you let it happen anyway. i don't consider that a mistake.
the best advise i would give you is to let whatever happened in the past, stay in the past. no matter what, don't look back and feel sorry for yourself. everyone makes mistakes. just try to forget about it and not let it happen again.

_jillian34_ December 2 2003, 11:49:33 UTC

I really like your journal..,.
You dont know me, but meg is helping me with one of these....
Please add me to your friends list

ndnchrldr05 December 2 2003, 17:50:03 UTC

you're added! :)

anonymous December 4 2003, 20:31:16 UTC

Hi you probably don't know me but I wanted to let you know something.

If you don't quit waking me up in third block I'm going to cut off your arms. That is all.

ndnchrldr05 December 5 2003, 14:27:22 UTC

haha* You're a dork! ;) You know you like me waking you up.. I can't resist sometimes. You look so peaceful & I'm trying to listen to Ms. Holbrook (sorta) & well, I just can't resist! ;) You would do the same to me I'm sure.

<3 u, DRU! ;)

Oh & I dare you to try to cut my arms off next time I wake you!