came out to my boss and heard from NYC.

Nov 14, 2007 18:59

I've been having anxiety attacks i hadn't had for a long time,and this was brought on by my procrastinating in coming out at work.Things were getting very bad but i couldn't decide if i wanted to just leave,or comeout.My sister wanted me to quit my job,tell them i had an offer of a new job,more money ect.She thinks i should just start new as keri ( Read more... )

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anonymous November 15 2007, 11:25:18 UTC
Aww Keri, you did it! Telling people at work is heart-in-mouth stuff but it's the big one off your to-do list now. Which reminds me, I really ought to get around to sorting the details on my own B/C.

By the way, thanks for the e-mail and photo. I'll write to you soon, especially in light of 'a friend' of mine!

Becky
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nc_cinegirl November 15 2007, 18:35:09 UTC
Heart in mouth really does describe it i'm an hour away from being at work,i'm happy but,well,
petrified!Looking foward to hearing from you,i think of ya often.*hugs*

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harleypaula November 15 2007, 11:36:41 UTC
Great news, Keri! Hope things go well Thurs. (today now). Living in two genders is so stressful, hopefully now the anxiety will subside. The coming out period is one of uncertainty, but person by person it *does* get easier. Best of luck, thanks for keeping us posted.

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nc_cinegirl November 15 2007, 18:39:33 UTC
I hope it will get easier i'm happy,very happy but it is the uncertainty of how it'll all pan that's not helpling my anxiety! You've been awesome from the beginning,hope ya have a nice Thanksgiving and i'll talk to ya sometime after that! *hugs*

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k8mnstr November 18 2007, 11:42:17 UTC
Wow Keri I'm so happy for you! It's such a liberating thing when you finally come out to your employer.

Think of it this way too. When applying for a new job, if you can get them to change the payroll and all that jazz, Keri will already have an established work history. Plus if you've been there more than 5 years that whole "have you worked under a different name thing" really doesn't/shouldn't apply.

*hugs* I'm so happy for you!

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nc_cinegirl November 18 2007, 21:47:32 UTC
Thanks Katelynn,getting Keri on the payroll was my goal and like i said the rest,well that remains to be seen,but it's another step foward!

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Re: hurray! nc_cinegirl November 18 2007, 21:42:29 UTC
Thanks Jayna,thanks Mila,i really appreciate your support!

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bchgrl315 November 18 2007, 17:23:34 UTC
Im so proud of you for doing this! Huge step forward!

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nc_cinegirl November 18 2007, 21:51:30 UTC
Thanks,You support and encouragement helpled make it happen!

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