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[naughtyhermione]

Bah. I just made a retarded mistake and I don't know why I did it but I did it and now I feel really stupid because it's just making me upset

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[biting_moopie]

I"ve made similar mistakes in the past. It's easier said than done but try to keep busy. Get some friends together and go out and have fun. Remember the good things about life, like chocolate and tv. And cats! And if you think about this again, tell yourself that you're just seeing what's on the surface; you don't know what's happening on the inside.

Again, it's easier said than done but I"ve found it beats sitting around feeling bad.

[naughtyhermione]

Yeah, I know he loves me and all, I'm not worried about that one...but still. And it's not something I can easily bring up, because I know she seriously hurt him a lot and he doesn't really like talking about it that much (I mean, I know I don't talk about my ex, because he hurt me and I don't really want to remember that).

But yeah, I'm sure I'll get over it - maybe I will talk to him later, but he'll probably just say that I'm beautiful and a silly billy. And really, I knew I would get upset if I looked, so I kinda brought it upon myself.

But thanks!

[biting_moopie]

And really, I knew I would get upset if I looked, so I kinda brought it upon myself.

I would disagree with that :) Sometimes it's worse not to know because you go over and over it in your mind and imagine all these terrible scenarios. Even though looking upset you, it will probably lead to you dealing with the situation. Does that make sense? I'm currently low on chocolate.

[belledewinter]

I was curious like that when it came to my now-ex's exes. But you know, he's with you now. Maybe if at some point the new girl (or even his exes) look at you they will feel just as bad about themselves and think you are the prettiest girl ever. I bet you look gorgeous, and you are the one who doesn't see it. :)