I give my whole-hearted agreement! ...And a blush.
I have no idea how anyone can think that striking a child can lead to anything that isn't horrible. It doesn't even work! It's like people who beat their dogs. All it does is breed resentment and hate in a relationship that might, otherwise, be beautiful.
But once you're old enough to ask for a spanking... Well, I'm sure not gunna stop you! XD
At the risk of being bombarded with bricks, I totally disagree with you all. Corporal punishment is needed in some cases. It should only be used sparingly though. I raised two boys who are both great kids now and neither had been smacked in... god, 10 years or so. When they're little a small smack does them no harm. Try babysitting a child who never gets smacked... you'll change your turn real quick.
oh dont get me wrong Madi :) I got slapped sometimes as a kid, by a worried grand-mother or other family members and I didnt get traumatized. I admit it :) I didnt mean it as a general rule, more like the way I know I feel myself today. (but its easy for me to say, I dont have kids, so I can imagine them as perfect little angels ! XDDD)
I just realised how snippy my reply sounded. Sorry!!! I didn't mean to sound so... bitchy and defensive! and honestly, alot of people do hit their kids way too much. It's such a easily abused concept. I always had a rule that I never hit my kids while angry. It's the only way to ensure the punishment is fair and not just a parent taking out their anger on someone smaller, but unfortunately alot of parents dont follow this rule.
Just the other day I saw a mother, hitting and yelling at this little 6 year old because the kid had asked for something and complained when she didn't get it. The little one so didn't deserve what happened and I felt like walking over and decking her mother. The words some of these people use when yelling at their kids are so bad... like what kind of retard calls their 6 year old daughter a 'stupid slut'? Some people just should never be allowed to have children.
w the fuck ??!! :O "a stupid slut" !!! Thats the worse I have ever heard ! Poor girl :( and noooo, you didnt sound snappy, Honey, just err passionate ! XDDDDD I can understand the occasional little swap on the butt but I have heard of so much abuse... I always said that if I ever had kids, it would be discipline, but lets face it, I was fooling myself.. I dont even manage to raise my voice with my cats. Im really a big softie, I finally admitted it to myself ! LOL !!! :P
Never gave a premeditated spanking in my life, but I must admit, when I saw my three year old with her teeth deeply embedded in her sister's arm, and the poor sister was screaming to high hell, my first reaction was to give the biter a swift swat to her bottom. Worked wonders and I don't think it left any lasting bad feelings. For adults? You didn't go into much detail here, are we talking about the kind of retribution handed out in the book, 'Girl with the Dragon Tatoo"?
ROFL !! kids trying to eat each other ! :P No, a swat on the butt is no drama, me think ! :D Especially in emergency cases like that one ! XDDDD
for adults. yes, of course, I was in my pervy mood. But come to think about it, sometimes, I feel quite tempted to give some people some "corporal punishment" without any sexual connotations..
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I have no idea how anyone can think that striking a child can lead to anything that isn't horrible. It doesn't even work! It's like people who beat their dogs. All it does is breed resentment and hate in a relationship that might, otherwise, be beautiful.
But once you're old enough to ask for a spanking... Well, I'm sure not gunna stop you! XD
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I didnt mean it as a general rule, more like the way I know I feel myself today. (but its easy for me to say, I dont have kids, so I can imagine them as perfect little angels ! XDDD)
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Just the other day I saw a mother, hitting and yelling at this little 6 year old because the kid had asked for something and complained when she didn't get it. The little one so didn't deserve what happened and I felt like walking over and decking her mother. The words some of these people use when yelling at their kids are so bad... like what kind of retard calls their 6 year old daughter a 'stupid slut'? Some people just should never be allowed to have children.
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and noooo, you didnt sound snappy, Honey, just err passionate ! XDDDDD
I can understand the occasional little swap on the butt but I have heard of so much abuse...
I always said that if I ever had kids, it would be discipline, but lets face it, I was fooling myself.. I dont even manage to raise my voice with my cats. Im really a big softie, I finally admitted it to myself ! LOL !!! :P
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For adults? You didn't go into much detail here, are we talking about the kind of retribution handed out in the book, 'Girl with the Dragon Tatoo"?
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for adults. yes, of course, I was in my pervy mood. But come to think about it, sometimes, I feel quite tempted to give some people some "corporal punishment" without any sexual connotations..
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"Corporal punishment" for SOME people?, Haha, OK, slinks away...XDDD!!
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Quit yer crying or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!!
LOL
Dad to little brother: "This note from your teacher says she thinks you many be hard of hearing"
Little brother: " What?"
*WHACK*
Dad to little brother: "Say that again?"
Little brother: "i have NO idea what she is talking about, I hear just fine now"
LOL!!
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