Second chances.

[mysongislove89]

Okay now let's try to write about something serious here, just for once.

Please tell me guys do you believe in second chances, in second chances in love or friendship?

From my crappy experience I do know one thing. There is no way that second time, things would only get better, that people will learn from their mistakes and all that shit. It's

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[fireworkfreeway]

Only you can answer that Alexxx. I think every situation is different and unique, but in general, I do think everyone gets a second chance.

But not a third, fourth, fifth, one-hundredth. And if this is who I think it's about... come on, Alex. You know I love you with my whole heart, but you cannot keep doing this to yourself.

When it comes to relationships, my theory is, that if it didn't work out the first and second time, why would it a third time? There's a reason it ended. And that reason will keep coming back.

But you've got a good head on your shoulders, and I hope you'll make the right decision.

That's an amazing ep of Grey's - one of my favorites, but it's just that Alexxx.... TV.

And I don't believe you ever stop loving someone fully. But that doesn't mean it holds you back, at all. You just have to want to move on and believe that you can.

I love you. <3

[mysongislove89]

I don't really know how you do it love, but you alwayss say to me exactly what I need to hear. Maybe I should somewhere deep in my heart love this person just to know that it was real, and that I have so many great memories?

I'm still not sure if I can move on, maybe 6 months after this whole sad situation is still too little. And it's not like I don't want to, it's more that I have trust issues and I'm insecure about my own happiness. I guess time is everything....

And if this is about what you think it is, I'm seriously done. But one thing is, I'm so mad at him that I can't look at him and even text him and maybe that's a problem. I can't let this go...why?

My wasted heart loves you so much! <3333

[fireworkfreeway]

I try, love. I just want to give you the advice you're looking for and need. I still love Matt, no matter how much I dislike who he is as a person, and that in no way means I'll ever go back to him, or want to go back to him. But I love him for what we had, and I'm finally at a place where I can say that and feel okay about it, you know? I love that time that we had together, but what came after is what hurt me so bad - and that's the part you need to forget. You need to know that it's okay to still love him - but not be in love with him - and treasure what you had, but that there's a time to move on and forgive

[mysongislove89]

Yeah, what I need is to believe that there is still so many great things to come for me. And one day I wanna wake up and be okay with all that happened to me.

It's still too fast for me I guess, because I still feel so hurt and even if I remember all these good things I shared with Peter, I just can't let this go. I'm still angry at him for acting so childish with me, even if I know he's a great guy and he'll make someone happy in the future. But it won't be me, 100%!

And I'm looking forward to this day when I'll be able to talk to him again, without hard feelings and awkwardness. So I'll wait and he must wait because I'm not gonna respond to his phonecalls and texts, just not yet.

And what you wrote makes a very clear sense. Who knew we had so much in common, we even got hurt in almost the same way by boys we loved, LOL

And you know that I love you more! <333

[talihinaxsky]

i think i do agree with second chances, but i find it very hard to do. and you have to think about the situation, is it petty or serious? does the person deserve forgiveness?

i was gonna say just what katie said, it's tv, most stuff on there wouldn't work in real life.

i don't think anyone can say to you to forgive someone because sometimes it feels right, sometimes it doesn't.

but i have to say don't do what i've done and hold a grudge against someone for too long, sometimes you get to the point where you can't look back.

work out what you want and go from there.

<33333

[mysongislove89]

You're right sweetie, TV is just TV, I know that, but seeing some things makes you think about your own life, at least I'm that way.

The thing is that what I want is to forgive someone and forget him (did I just sounded like LC, lol?) but it's not possible. I could always forgive something but I won't forget all that pain, and that's what sucks.

Maybe it's still not too late to fix some things, but still I'm a coward when it comes to my feelings these days...