even though I've been a bad friend the past week in journal entry postings... it's still not hard to let go. But look at what you came out of it, you at least gathered enough thoughts to make a good journal entry of your good memories... which the start of your 2nd paragraph you didn't even think you could do.
You don't have to remember specific memories... or good times, you just have to remember exactly what you are remembering... him. The way he'd drinking salted beer, burning up that burger... his actions and idiosyncrasies will remain with you... not just the memoreis... the ability to say "what would he say if he were here?" You have the ability to fill in that blank.
thanks don. it's hard, i've never lost anyone before and i really have no idea what to do/when to do it... i'm more worried about my dad and my grandma than anything. i feel terrible that i can't be home right now =/
i'm sorry i overreacted to the whole thing with you, but it really got to me, you know? just no more calling me a cunt and don't get all butthurt when i make jokes, k?
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even though I've been a bad friend the past week in journal entry postings...
it's still not hard to let go. But look at what you came out of it, you
at least gathered enough thoughts to make a good journal entry of your good memories... which the start of your 2nd paragraph you didn't even think you could do.
You don't have to remember specific memories... or good times, you just have to remember exactly what you are remembering... him. The way he'd drinking salted beer, burning up that burger... his actions and idiosyncrasies will remain with you... not just the memoreis... the ability to say "what would he say if he were here?" You have the ability to fill in that blank.
Best wishes...
- Don
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i'm sorry i overreacted to the whole thing with you, but it really got to me, you know? just no more calling me a cunt and don't get all butthurt when i make jokes, k?
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