Of course thats true. All of it. And I think everyone has realized it at some point. Its really sad... that this is our means of communication. But if you do stop, you have to make sure you have the kind of friends who really do care about you. Which I'm sure you do. I stopped, and I found that no one really talked to me about my problems anymore. No one really thought about it. But when people read it on LJ, thats when they realize that things need to be talked about. Apparently its a beginning. A way to give people some insight. Terribly sad and pathetic as it is.It gets the idea out. It makes me really angry actually.
yeah, see that's part of my problem with LJ. I definitely understand where you're coming from. I mean I bottle shit up all the time then vent to an LJ, cause I don't think anyone wants to hear my problems. I think you sell yourself short on not having the friends who care. I mean I don't have a boat load of friends I'm gonna vent my problems to, but I have one or two, and that's what we need.
I think that might not have come out right. Of course I truly do appreciate everyone that I know. All of my friends. And I'm not saying they don't care about me. Just that people aren't as thoughtful as we'd like them to be. In an ideal world we'd never have to bottle up anything. We'd feel loved and be able to love without barriers. But as of now that's some task. And some make it more difficult then others. As obscure as I'm trying not to make this... it seems to be coming out that way. The point is we all need to be understood by someone.
mhmm..i try not to be all sad through lj. because...well...i dont want other people to feel sad due to my sadness. my sadness is plenty of saddness in the world. lets spread lj happiness.
"According to Matt Mooney, live journals have only one purpose. This purpose is to allow teenagers to complain about their friends (that they are too afraid to confront to their face) and to complain about unhappiness in life. Therefore, as soon as Matt Mooney saw that I had gotten a live journal, he immediately asked me why I needed one. "If you need to complain to someone" he said "talk to someone you trust. Don't post it on the internet for everyone to see." So I listened to Matt's advice. I told Matt that I would only use my live journal to post boring information that no one would read, and I would simply use my journal to read about the drama going on in other peoples lives.
Of course, you can imagine my surprise when I saw this next time I signed on: AFM1844: I need a code Lilsinger124: a code? AFM1844: for an lj"
I wrote that December 7th, 2003; it took you awhile to make this resolution.
you know what's really funnny?my_world_71December 19 2004, 14:27:02 UTC
that didn't prove anything.
I didn't get an lj until this summer. I said from the get go that I would post useless information, and I did notice the tons of posts about songs for a new world and recording.
The one time I did post anything along the lines of depressing was two days after after I broke up with Sarah, so cut me some slack on that.
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PS:we just had this conversation through comments, thus proving my point
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*hug*.
and i'll give you a real hug in person too ;-)
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"According to Matt Mooney, live journals have only one purpose. This purpose is to allow teenagers to complain about their friends (that they are too afraid to confront to their face) and to complain about unhappiness in life. Therefore, as soon as Matt Mooney saw that I had gotten a live journal, he immediately asked me why I needed one. "If you need to complain to someone" he said "talk to someone you trust. Don't post it on the internet for everyone to see." So I listened to Matt's advice. I told Matt that I would only use my live journal to post boring information that no one would read, and I would simply use my journal to read about the drama going on in other peoples lives.
Of course, you can imagine my surprise when I saw this next time I signed on:
AFM1844: I need a code
Lilsinger124: a code?
AFM1844: for an lj"
I wrote that December 7th, 2003; it took you awhile to make this resolution.
*hug*
:-) <--Evil Dana smile
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I didn't get an lj until this summer. I said from the get go that I would post useless information, and I did notice the tons of posts about songs for a new world and recording.
The one time I did post anything along the lines of depressing was two days after after I broke up with Sarah, so cut me some slack on that.
nice try though.
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