Someone posted today on
attachedparents about how horrible somebody else was because they would occasionally let their baby cry alone for a few minutes. There was no mention of context. I am against letting babies cry by themselves as a general rule, but there are occasionally times when it's safer for the baby if the mother or father sets them down in a safe
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Just kidding. Of course you're right. There were times that I had to step away from my crying child because the rage burned inside me so brightly that I would have strangled her instead. I think people really live in a fantasy world or else are thoroughly blessed with calm children and just don't ever see the other side.
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Not only are none of us perfect but we all have different personalities and styles and our kids have different personalities/challenges as well. Give the "never let the baby cry alone, you horrible person" admonishment to the parent of a colicky baby and see how well it goes over, eh? Hah.
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As long as *their* way is the right way and everybody else's way is the *wrong* one!
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(For my part, I don't think I have left Jonah to cry more than once. But he is usually easy to soothe (other than this new tantrum thing) and I am also pretty mellow. Also, I have handed him off to other people when he was crying, and I couldn't take it. Is that close enough to perfect?)
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