No, Thank You

[msbutterpecan]

I think, in regards to many more things than I care to admit, I actually am a commitment-phobe.

What an uncomfortable feeling; both to realize this and to feel so trapped by saying "yes" to any given agreement...

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That's interesting

[drwex]

Do you know why?

Re: That's interesting

[msbutterpecan]

No, really, I don't. I often say it's because I have "gypsy blood" but...?

It can be as unimportant as not wanting to color a picture because then I've committed to those colors to as major as not wanting to be in a relationship because then I've chosen that partner (polyamory notwithstanding).

I get panicky at lease signings, cell phone contracts, even ordering meals at restaurants.

It's fucking annoying.

Re: That's interesting

[drwex]

I can see that. As a person with a large raft of his own anxieties I sympathize a great deal with this.