Hey, well I never really have gotten to know you past LJ, but that can be pretty personal. I've deleted my journal again, and didn't want it to seem like I just vanished without even a wave. I hope your life is going well. You seem to me like a genuinely compassionate person and I always am a sucker for that.
Well, once again, I only hope that you'll change your mind and return to LJ, even if under a different name.
And the Maple thing? I'd advise a severance or abstinence, even if for a limited period. It can be tempting to continue hanging out with deeply flawed women out of appreciation for "the little things", but I find it drains me and leaves me feeling more resentful in the long run. Just something to think over.....
I hope things will go well for you and that you'll stay in contact no matter what you do with LJ....
Yeah, a break can be good, she doesn't seem to like or understand the idea too well but I agree. Mostly she tries to talk to me after I pull back, that has been the pattern. I'd say she isn't too bad, she just needs to dampen her massive pride now and then, and be a bit less self-centered. I wouldn't say shes any more flawed than I am. I tend to be an unforgiving and ruthless critic. I maybe could have focused more on the times like when I just wanted to give up and she was very encouraging.
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you were pretty high on mine too.
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I just couldn't stand what my journal had become.
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And the Maple thing? I'd advise a severance or abstinence, even if for a limited period. It can be tempting to continue hanging out with deeply flawed women out of appreciation for "the little things", but I find it drains me and leaves me feeling more resentful in the long run. Just something to think over.....
I hope things will go well for you and that you'll stay in contact no matter what you do with LJ....
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I'll be around.
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