When I was about six years old and in Mrs. Manner’s first grade class, they brought in a special speaker one day to tell us about this program called “Take Your Daughter to Work Day.” I can’t remember the way she looked or sounded, but her smug attitude is still something I keenly recall twenty-one years later. It was explained to us that the
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This sums it up perfectly. I also think it would help with the "us vs. them" mentality BOTH sexes have. The rise of feminism spawned a lot of anti-male sentiments in women, and even though women have been treated with disdain as second-class citizens throughout history, the anti-man sentiment helped create a huge backlash of hatred for females in men. It's so disappointing on both sides. I hate hearing men bash women. I hate hearing women bash men. I think you hit the nail on the head that the fight for equality has morphed into a fight for dominance, in a grade school "I'm better than youuuuuu" kind of way.
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Oh. Well, I have. That's probably why we disagree. I've just seen and heard anti-opposite sex sentiments from so many peers and colleagues, it really pisses me off because I just want to get along, but I'm always hearing "men are such assholes" or "Women are such bitches" when that really not fair because there are a lot of people who are actually decent, but there's just so many others who want to blame the "other" for this reason or that. But as you said, you've not encountered this, so I don't know what else to say except we run into very different kinds of people.
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And then I was le tired, because fuck it. If you want to go ahead and believe that men are disadvantaged and women are Running the Whole Show, you go ahead and do that.
I would, however, like to pose the following question: if we're going to admit college students based on true merit, intelligence, and drive . . . why are we even admitting men, anyway (if your supposition is true)? Shouldn't we be admitting the absolute best students and completely ignoring resulting gender ratios?
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I'm a little surprised no one had anything to say about my theories on youth based programs for boys.
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Now that I'm thinking about it, actually, I've never heard it said that a girl should go to camp so she can learn to socialize with other children. It's always so she WILL socialize with other children. Like it's assumed that girls are born knowing how to socialize and those that don't are just being stubborn. (Like, for example, Yours Truly, who was an aloof little shit and hated most other children. Large parts of that stemmed from having absolutely nothing in common with them and not knowing how to communicate.)
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