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[morgan99]

It seems lately whatever I do someone ends up getting hurt. I am not used to this and it is distressing me greatly. I have always tried to live my life as a good person & be true to my feelings, not living a lie

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[cyberxspider]

After reading that I now understand what you were saying online yesterday. But you also mentioned that things are sorted and I just hope everything continues to go well for you from now on.
=^.^=

[conflux]

You are a good and fine person, the kind of person you get a good feeling from. You wouldn't hurt anyone if you could avoid it. It is always better to be true to yourself and honest as you will end up hurting people less in the long run. You are also a good friend who I enjoy having in my life even if our paths do not cross that often.

People can often build up expectations that are based on wishful thinking rather than anything that has been said or done. After you have told the truth, this in the end has to be their problem and you should not feel bad about it. None of us gets everything we want in life, if we did we would be very spoilt. How someone reacts to disapointment can say more about them than how they react to good things.

I'm so glad you have found someone you love though (assuming that's the right word) *bounces up and down and gets all excited for you* You must tell me all when I speak to you next.

[faerierhona]

you are one of the nicest, most compassionate and lovely people I know. If you hurt smeone, then I KNOW it would be either by accident or because it was unavoidable. Ignore them

[faerierhona]

oh.. and get on MSN and tell me WHO! Is this the person we discussed???

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[morgan99]

Have no Broadband yet so only online about once a day at uni or internet cafe. No it's not the person we discussed, it's a kind of um, unexpected complication with the whole moving in thing.. Very unexpected but amazing :-)

You must come down & see our new place soon. Will be great to see you again.

B x

[wu_jian]

I hope everything's working out OK. Often it feels like you're hurting someone but it's their decision, ultimately, to put themselves in the firing line (talking from experience) and they, like everyone else on the planet, ought to be able to cope with a little heartache. I mean, not trying to belittle 'unrequieted love' but some people cope with losing, like, legs and stuff. Hell, I'm coping with the grinding inevitability of circumstance preventing me from getting together with someone right now; someone the likes of which I've managed to go 23 years (OK, 22 years and 364 days, so far) without meeting anyone even remotely similar, so I'm a bit gutted. That said, it's not the end of the world. And more importantly the way I might feel is not her fault.
So if anyone blames you (and from the responses on this message, it doesn't look like it) then fuck 'em. With splintery sticks...

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[morgan99]

Sorry to hear about this hon. If you fancy a chat whatever the time you know my number.

*Hug*

B x