Hoookay...

[moraya]

So I'm trying to get my energy back. Trying to not be the worry-wart that I am over things I have no control of. I worry about people, it's like (as one of my friends from art school put it once) I am the mom. Not that I feel as if I'm the best mom by any means, but I try. I try to be compassionate and sympathetic. Maybe that makes me come off

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[uneide]

*hugs* I hope you know the feeling's mutual hon. <3
THANK YOU, for being there the times I was crying out and most people weren't listening. I know I get frustrated now and then that I can't fix things for you. That you aren't close enough to have a playdate with, to drag away shopping or just have tea.

I'm happy that we at least get to meet online, and rant a little bit yes? <3

[gabefinder]

*kersnugs* Miss seeing you around, but I know how real life can go. And I'm sure you're an awesome mom. :)

I send good juju your way, for what that's worth.

[ren52]

Please, you don't complain half as much as some people I know IRL who have no actual reasons to complain. Plus, this is your journal, you should feel free to say/write whatever you want!

I do think you are a genuine person; you've been nothing but sweet and terrific since I've met you. You have this crushing guilt complex though! You can't please everyone all the time. I wish you took some more Ruthie time and do what's right for you without worrying about everyone else so much. It's okay to be selfish every now and then, y'know! ;) For your own health or sanity if nothing else. We do miss you online, but we also know you have a lot to deal with and you can't be online even when you want to sometimes. I don't know who could be pissed at you for that! It's not neglect, it's called life, and it happens to all of us. Please don't feel guilty for being a mom or living your life or any of that!

Hugs for you! <333