Comments | moral_decision: Today...

moral_decision

Today...

Jun 30, 2005 22:22

( Again by Tapping the Vein )

bdsm, sex, relationships, love

Comments 10

arabwel July 1 2005, 02:51:27 UTC

I think I know what you mean but I could just be thinking I know what you mean.

moral_decision July 1 2005, 04:13:41 UTC

When my partner wants a drink, it's not "slave, go get Me a drink now!", it's "Hey hon, can you go grab me a drink?". While s/he is still "telling" me what to do, it's not in a commanding way, and it's not because that's what I'm "supposed" to do.

That make it any clearer?

arabwel July 1 2005, 04:15:25 UTC

Yup, now I know that I was not just thinking I know what you mean, I actually do know what you mean :)

*hugs*

**Amendment** ! : ) !!!!!!!! siiix July 2 2005, 05:44:29 UTC

i think its all depends on the entire situation and the people involved, both way can be good or not as good, doing Submission stuff not necessary has to mean that the dominant one has to be an asshole as well - in fact i personally think that’s the wrong way, just easier then to learn how to dominate and still being "normal or nice"< for lack of better words, a dominant partner can be even strict and still NOT being an ass ( ... )

digitaldevil July 1 2005, 04:31:11 UTC

I know exactly what you're saying. That's what I look for when I search out a relationship. I've attempted 24/7 before and it's way more work than I want to put in a relationship. I also want a bit more than just the bedroom, but I don't know what that is or what to call it.

Suffice to say, I know what you mean. You're not the only one to think this way and if someone in the scene wants to see this as a cop-out, then they can go fuck themselves. Period.

moral_decision July 1 2005, 04:36:28 UTC

Yeah, I am not too terribly worried about people in the scene having too much of an issue. I've been a part of it for quite a while, and I know that most of my friends are hard-core lifestylers. I'm lifestyle, but I find that lifestylers judge the hardest.

**sigh**

prismfire July 1 2005, 04:59:01 UTC

you phrased it well ... I think that is what many of us look for in relationships in the D/s lifestyle .... I dont know ... I just think that you cant have balance without a little bit of normal thrown into the kink.

impeccablyme July 1 2005, 12:13:00 UTC

This post makes me smile, because I like to see people working through their "stuff" to figure out how they want everything to fall into place. Good luck finding what you're seeking. You deserve to find it! :)

siiix July 2 2005, 03:09:09 UTC

just finished downloading "Tapping The Vein-The Damage" - its awsome : )

moral_decision July 2 2005, 04:34:05 UTC

I know. It's a great album!