Aaaww perdoname, bella. None of that was about you.... specifically; though thinking back on things you've told me I may need to yell at you about some things, haha.
I'll tell you what I want as a prize when I give you your XXX-Mas gift. :P
I think NY is filled with totally single screwed up women. I think they are screwed because they haven't recovered from their past messed relationships in a healthy way. They still carry that baggage and apply that mierda to their current relationship. If their ex was a cheater, they'll suspect you are a cheater by default. I can kind of see why older dudes mess with younger women, less baggage, less scarred tissue, a virtual clean slate. I am not women bashing. There are women that dealt with bad relationships in a healthy way and don't carry baggage with them, but they are usually married with children:-/. It does seem like some women have that belief that they can change a man, probably the reason why they end up losers because they believe they can change them.
That whole "he'll change if he loves me" thought process is one of the biggest reasons women end up dissatisfied with relationships. They need to realize that does not work in the real world.
So true. I guess society can be blamed for this to an extent. All those soap operas, romance movies etc have the female protagonists changing their rough around the edges love interest through love. Then again some women don't learn this lesson at all, they date the same type of guy that freeloads and scumbags them then complain that there are no decent guys out there. If Sarah always dates dudes that are 35, unemployed and still lives with his mama, she loses some sympathy points.
Don't forget the "daddy complex" that's always one factor. Is society part to blame yeah, one great example is Valentine Day and any females that look at soap opera's, Oprah or that Phil dude needs to have common sense raped into them.
"Hip-Hop circa?" Circa what? Circa is a word to correspond something to a time frame. >.<
Anyway, since you mention TBEP & Fergie I suppose you're asking specifically what Hip-Hop music is right now... TBEP don't make Hip-Hop music, currently. People have to realize what makes Hip-Hop music is (1) the purpose of the music (2) who it's made for. Hip-Hop music, as a part of the Hip-Hop culture, is made for urban youth. Either to entertain them or to educate them. TBEP's music is currently made for the Pop market: 14-year-old, white girls, a.k.a. the MTV demographic.
If you remember TBEP's before they dropped the piece of shit that was "Where is the Love" they've completely done a 180 or as some would say sell out. Fergie doesn't register on my radar unless I hear some stupid chick on the train singing her songs.
I agree that Hip-Hop should educate first and then entertain and that message is missing in most of today's music. I still listen to Hip-Hop but rarely anything past late 1999 - early 2000 and I feel that I am not missing much. I'll still listen to the Commen's, Mos Def's, Talib Kweli's and Nas's of the world. Those are a few examples but nothing much.
woman are screwed up the world over, you speak the truth brother, AMEN! but there is something about a good woman that can bring change out in a man. motivate him more, make him more ambitious, and we do change somewhat when we love our women but our core stays the same. so if you love a man even at his lowest, most perverse, and most down-trodden; and he loves you at your craziest heaight ladies; i say you're made for each other and hold on to that :-D.
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I'll tell you what I want as a prize when I give you your XXX-Mas gift. :P
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I'm guess your prize is for me to take a photo with said gift or to just use it, eh? hahaha dirty little one.
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Well it wasn't before, but I'm down if you are, haha. I think that's funnier to me 'cause I know what it is. ^_^
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Are the Black Eye Peas more so Hip-Hop today then they were back in the day, is Fergi alone Hip=Hop.
How many different Hip-Hop circa exist if any at all?
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Anyway, since you mention TBEP & Fergie I suppose you're asking specifically what Hip-Hop music is right now... TBEP don't make Hip-Hop music, currently. People have to realize what makes Hip-Hop music is (1) the purpose of the music (2) who it's made for. Hip-Hop music, as a part of the Hip-Hop culture, is made for urban youth. Either to entertain them or to educate them. TBEP's music is currently made for the Pop market: 14-year-old, white girls, a.k.a. the MTV demographic.
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"shakes head"
Let me get the useless out first.
If you remember TBEP's before they dropped the piece of shit that was "Where is the Love" they've completely done a 180 or as some would say sell out. Fergie doesn't register on my radar unless I hear some stupid chick on the train singing her songs.
I agree that Hip-Hop should educate first and then entertain and that message is missing in most of today's music. I still listen to Hip-Hop but rarely anything past late 1999 - early 2000 and I feel that I am not missing much. I'll still listen to the Commen's, Mos Def's, Talib Kweli's and Nas's of the world. Those are a few examples but nothing much.
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Oh and BTW take a midol fool!
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