Answer your fucking phone

[mommamber]

Start rant So...I'm sick of everybody's shit in my household. Me and Shaun have been WAY bitchy to each other lately and I think it's due to the fact that we've moved in with his family. No, I don't think that, I know that. So like, his brother is cool and all, but I hate having sex when he's home because his room is right next to ours and I

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[lindsayboo]

I know how hard it can be to live with your boyfriends family. I went through the same thing with Caleb's dad. But it was his sister, not his brother that could hear us having sex. And it was his sister who was a WHORE to me. You know how girls are. You just said so up there ^. LOL. When are you guys planning on moving out? Or do you know yet? I hope things get better. Have you considered sitting his dad down and calmly discussing these issues with him, and letting him know that you would love for him to able to come to YOU, instead of putting Shaun in the middle? Maybe that might help? I'm not sure because some people you just cannot talk to and confront about a situation without them going off the deep end or they are just impossible to talk to for a bazillion reasons. My mom is one of those people. I hope things get better for you. I do know how hard it is. <3 If you need to talk, you have my NUMBAH. Hey, I might be going to Rise tonight (downtown) to see on the patio and chill. Live music, a kick ass happy hour...would you want to

[mommamber]

We're not planning on moving out for the fact that we're eventually going to buy that house. Things will get better, I'm sure of it. His dad will be going to truck driving school and if he gets hired on, he'll be gone for weeks at a time *evil grin*. His brother is moving out as well, I believe at the first of August. So we'll have a lot more alone time when that happens. Hmm, the Rise huh? Is there a cover there? And who else might be or is going?

[mommamber]

Well, we're not moving out for the fact that we're going to wind up buying the house eventually. Things will get better I'm sure. His dad will be going to truck driving school soon and then if he gets hired on or whatever they do, he'll be gone for weeks at a time *evil grin*. Blake is also moving out I believe at the first of August. So we'll get a lot more alone time when all this takes place. The Rise, huh? Is there a cover? Who all might or is going?

[wordsforknives]

I don't blame you for being pissed-were I in a similar situation I'd be furious too. It makes no sense for him to not talk to you about it when you're living in the same house. Sometimes it's the fully-grown men that make the least sense.

[mommamber]

It's all men that don't make sense...not just the fully grown ones lol. ;)

I agree

[babs11111]

I love reading your live journal. You just don't hold back and state your feelings and that's awesome. If he is not willing to talk to you maybe you should sit down and talk with him first? Let him know that you would like better communication and not to use your boyfriend as a middleman to convey his messages to you.

Re: I agree

[mommamber]

Thank you! That's the reason that I made the journal. So I could write down all my feelings. I have it as public because frankly, I don't give a shit what other people think lol. I'm glad you like it, though. :)

In reference to everyone's comments/suggestions

[mommamber]

I got an e-mail from Shaun saying that he talked to his dad. I guess the reason he wasn't talking to me and telling me these things is 2 actually. First because he didn't want to "come between" me and Shaun. Which makes NO sense to me because I don't see how communication could come between anyone. Well, I do, but not in this sense. And second because apparently he didn't want me to walk out or something lol. Because Shaun said that he (his dad) would talk to me as long as I didn't get up and walk away. That's funny because I've never done that to his dad before. Maybe he just thinks that's the way women are, that when we get mad or something, we get up and walk away. Which is true with me SOMETIMES, but not lately and never with him. SO, that's the update on that. Thanks for everyone's opnions/thoughts/suggestions. I do appreciate and enjoy it. :) <3

[pawsibleclaws]

yay for lip gloss!

[mommamber]

fo sho! :)