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[misspoppie]

I have a really tough decision to make.

Jon's been a complete shmoo and has been hiding things and lying to me and everyone else about money. It's finally all come out, he's made a slight plan but I wont go into it.

It comes down to the fact that I either have to support myself financially or move back in with his parents. I love living in Bristol

Comments

[pipebomb_here]

It's so hard to find a job these days, I would go for option one, your job is your independence, go for a room share with friends or something, go for a cheaper living option.

If you give up your job it's back to just having no purpose. -hugs-

[parlous]

Its a tough call but only one of will help with you growing as a person and having a life

[misspoppie]

I'm not personally in debt becuase Jon is(either really nice or a selfish arse) and won't let anything be in my name. My accomodation isn't even in my name.

But I am 2 months behind on the rent and next week it will be 3. That's £840. Oh God.

I've missed out on 2 oppertunities to meet Fuchia when Joker Alice came down to Bristol but I was too ill ): I guess I shuld chat to her but I don't know if that would be weird. I also can't remember if I've met her before, I may have.

[parlous]

send her a message she is friendly.

OK £840 is a fair bit of money I would be shocked if they would take payment on a credit card so an overdraft may be your only option and agreeing with the landlord to pay it back in chunks? (which if in Jons name he should be trying to help with).

You need to watch out and act on this fast, you get 3 months behind and they might start thinking about kicking you out / changing locks and you do not want to loose your stuff! get in contact with the landlord and talk them through and tell them how you will get up to date, but you do need to find a way to get some money to them asap.

Once its paid off then try and find somewhere cheaper? like a one bedroom place in a house share?

[misspoppie]

I just got a call from my housemate with a message from my landlord. There is a council tax bill of £58.50 that I need to pay immediatly too. I have no idea what I'm going to do. I'm just sitting here crying. I have to pay it by tomorrow.

I'm sorry for moaning, thankyou so much for the advice.

[candystardust]

Sweetheart, after reading all the comments i can only offer you the same support

[misspoppie]

Thankyou for all the advice Amy. Don't worry about waffling heh. Thankyou so much x x x x