I believe that a relationship is only valid for as long as I believe it is. Once I no longer believe that it is, I will break things off cleanly. I tend to have a scorched earth policy with relationships once I decide I'm done with them.
Honestly, I've never needed to snoop, not even in relationships I was trying to end. If you're quiet, receptive and friendly, you can get almost any information you need out of people directly. All you need to do is shut up, bait and have a very good memory for stated facts. I believe that's called being manipulative.
But, I mean, it's moot. I hide nothing from my husband. He can't snoop on me because he has every single one of my passwords (I gave them to him and vice versa), including this journal. He has full access to my family and friends, should he decide to verify the things I say. I don't hide from anyone or anything, especially not the people I care for.
Should I need private time to myself, I make that abundantly known and it is respected.
I was referring to the like 175 people who answered before I did, and before you did. They all said the same thing: "no, and of course *I* would never do that". It's a nice theory, but in my experience with people, it's not always practiced
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I believe that a relationship is only valid for as long as I believe it is. Once I no longer believe that it is, I will break things off cleanly. I tend to have a scorched earth policy with relationships once I decide I'm done with them.
Honestly, I've never needed to snoop, not even in relationships I was trying to end. If you're quiet, receptive and friendly, you can get almost any information you need out of people directly. All you need to do is shut up, bait and have a very good memory for stated facts. I believe that's called being manipulative.
But, I mean, it's moot. I hide nothing from my husband. He can't snoop on me because he has every single one of my passwords (I gave them to him and vice versa), including this journal. He has full access to my family and friends, should he decide to verify the things I say. I don't hide from anyone or anything, especially not the people I care for.
Should I need private time to myself, I make that abundantly known and it is respected.
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