Just when you thought it couldn't get worse.

[misa_kitten]

So...Monday I bring my pet ray Calypso (the female black rat) to the vet because she was not feeling well. She had lost alot of weight,etc. Turns out, The abcess on her butt, caused by Elizabeth biting her,flared up a pneumonia. She was in pain,had problems breathing/walking, had lost alot of weight. The vet told us she wouldn't be able to support

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[lioness_syl]

Well, I lost 2 friends that I loved alot. One was when I was in High School and the other one was about 3 years ago. This is all because of rumours and drama, just like you.

The friend I lost in High School found me on facebook and we patched things up. We laughed it off, we realised how pathetic it all was.

The other friend, well, lets just say I have not spoken too because a certain ex associated herself with that person.

Its really sad but if they are really your friends, they will come back to you. I know it hurts but with friends like that, you don't need any enemies!

Also, look at this as a time for self-reflection. Perhaps, with all their ugliness, perhaps their was something that you might of done that could of hurt them. If you are truly sorry, I would try reaching out once more. If they don't wan't, cut your losses, you learned a lesson, and move on that much wiser.

life is all about experiences. Sometimes the most unpleasant experience can turn around and be the best one.

[misa_kitten]

It's really sad..what they said really hurt me.. it hit hard because I don't think i'm that horrible of a person like they describe it. I do have my faults and qualities..but I don't think I'm a horrible monster..

Maybe we'll be friends again,maybe not. My mother was hurt by what "friend B" said, because my mom helped her out alot.

I know there's things I should change..I should be less scared of confrontation and say what I think about ppl instead of sometimes ranting. But everybody rants from time to time..

Yyeepp...*hugs* Thanks Sylvie..what you said made me feel a bit better.