I'm finally getting Flar's oil changed. He wanted me to get it done while he was in surgery two weeks ago. Um, no. And, not the next day, the time to which I postponed it -- I got to be on 24 hour post-surgery watch instead
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No particular difference really. We've rarely had any organized poly-specific activities. Once, we aired a movie that Jasmine brought, that was sort of a poly documentary. Mom *was* going to be here, until we counted up weekends, and figured out that it was too long for Daddy to be here.
We're a kind of a poly-hybrid couple at this point, with me being in a marriage-level relationship only with Flar, and my relationships being dear friendships, but Flar still being in a marriage-level relationship with Gaucha.
I'm trying to take the emphasis away from poly in the party, although realistically, most of the people who attend every year are poly. But hey, relationship-style is not really a definition of person, and the party is truly for our friends (current, and potential) when it comes down to it.
Yep, busy is a word for it. We haven't planned out a trip to DC or Boston or Philly yet, either.
Thanks. We've had a pretty unusual marriage as they go. We're in an improving state at this point, I'd say.
Flar drives an Audi, and when he tried to get his oil changed elsewhere, they didn't have the right parts, so he gets it changed at the dealership. It's a pleasant errand to run for him, I must say.
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I'm looking forward to meeting y'all!
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We're a kind of a poly-hybrid couple at this point, with me being in a marriage-level relationship only with Flar, and my relationships being dear friendships, but Flar still being in a marriage-level relationship with Gaucha.
I'm trying to take the emphasis away from poly in the party, although realistically, most of the people who attend every year are poly. But hey, relationship-style is not really a definition of person, and the party is truly for our friends (current, and potential) when it comes down to it.
Does that make sense?
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sounds like tons of fun though!
27 years? Good for you!
ok... do tell where did ya score the free wifi and beverages... I need an oil change!
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Thanks. We've had a pretty unusual marriage as they go. We're in an improving state at this point, I'd say.
Flar drives an Audi, and when he tried to get his oil changed elsewhere, they didn't have the right parts, so he gets it changed at the dealership. It's a pleasant errand to run for him, I must say.
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