Today I ran a race in Anaheim. Races are never just races. It's always an entire morning event which includes the main race, a children's (shorter) race, vendors, bands, raffles, awards, food, etc
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it just blows my mind that not one woman was like, "hey, what the fuck, get yr damn hand off my tit, pervert!" it just goes to show how women are afraid to question things like that. we are conditioned to be too polite. if it had been guys having their asses touched, more than half of them would have punched the dude or at least threatened him. grrr...
Yes, isn't it amazing that not one woman said anything? As I watched I became angier and angrier and I wondered if those women didn't notice at all or if they were just so completely shocked and unsure (like me) that they couldn't do anything.
If I had it to do all over again I would say, "Excuse me... please watch your hand. I don't appreciate that kind of attention." That would be the classy side of me speaking. What would be even better is if I slapped him across his face and yelled "How dare you touch me in such a manner you creepy pervert!!!" loud enough to embarrass him in front of all the onlookers.
And yes, if that creep was touching guys asses, he'd end up getting punched.
Tiina says that on some flights, people give her ass a friendly squeeze especially the Japanese and the key on how to deal with them is to embarrass them. She shames them on grabbing her ass with her infamous Donald Duck temper of hers and they almost do hara-kiri from the embarrassment.
That calls to mind a time when I was nudging you in a line at the car wash years ago where you yelled at the top of your lungs and with seeming genuine fear, "DON'T HIT ME!!!" I remember the looks of contemptuous disgust and hate directed directly at me from everyone in line. I had no choice to leave before someone in that line would "teach me" how it feels to be hit.
Re: Tiina's GropersminihahaJune 24 2007, 18:33:26 UTC
What does she say to them when they do that to her???
Oh my gosh!! I had forgotten about that incident. Why in the heck did I do that?? Were you pushing me hard or was I just trying to be stupidly funny? What the heck was up with me?
I barely remember the details of that... but I'm sorry for embarrassing you.
Re: Tiina's Gropersblake76June 27 2007, 20:36:31 UTC
She usually cusses in Finnish. Oh I haven't told you Tiina has a mouth like a drunken sailor when she gets a tad upset. When my parents came for our wedding she had to drive them to the city center. Driving in Helsinki is far worse than driving in SF by far and she wasn't at that time the most confident driver and you need nerves of steel to drive in town. Well like I said she has a mouth like a sailor so she came home purple from embarrassment apparently she launched into a very explative 10+ minute tirade about a driver that she almost collided with until she realized that both my parents were deathly quiet and when she looked in the rear-view mirror she saw my parents' jaw open with extremely terrified looks on their faces. She says that when she cusses in English it doesn't carry the same powerful meaning that it would in Finnish, so she has to use more cuss words. Hmmm. My parents told me with an ear to ear grin "You're future wife has a really large vocabulary in English.... We both learned quite a few new words on our
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i hope you gals report him.
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If I had it to do all over again I would say, "Excuse me... please watch your hand. I don't appreciate that kind of attention." That would be the classy side of me speaking. What would be even better is if I slapped him across his face and yelled "How dare you touch me in such a manner you creepy pervert!!!" loud enough to embarrass him in front of all the onlookers.
And yes, if that creep was touching guys asses, he'd end up getting punched.
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Can you still report him.. say he was the boob grabbing bird man. Do you know any of the other runners who could back you up?
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That calls to mind a time when I was nudging you in a line at the car wash years ago where you yelled at the top of your lungs and with seeming genuine fear, "DON'T HIT ME!!!" I remember the looks of contemptuous disgust and hate directed directly at me from everyone in line. I had no choice to leave before someone in that line would "teach me" how it feels to be hit.
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Oh my gosh!! I had forgotten about that incident. Why in the heck did I do that?? Were you pushing me hard or was I just trying to be stupidly funny? What the heck was up with me?
I barely remember the details of that... but I'm sorry for embarrassing you.
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