Why do they always...

[millionmilefall]

...have to lose the girl before they realize they love her

Comments

[nrebis]

Sometimes I think we project what we think we are - and create what we think should be, not what we wish to be. Othertimes I think we project what we wish we are - and create not what we think should be, or what we wish - but an image that we find impossible to live up to. Self esteem can be repaired - sometimes, just by finally realizing that you are who you are - and letting someone love you for you. Nothing lifts esteem more than someone who knows your faults, and forgives you for them - even if you find it hard to forgive yourself, it makes those faults just not very important anymore.

[millionmilefall]

Forgiving anyone else is so much harder than forgiving myself.

[nrebis]

Sometimes forgiving others is a hell of a lot easier then forgiving yourself - you can blind yourself to their motives, their reasons. Hell of alot harder with your own - for you can not just forget about it, can not simply ignore it - if it bothers you.

[millionmilefall]

I just read what I wrote there. And what you said is what I meant. Forgiving others is WAY easier than forgiving myself.