Comments | miki: why men cheat

miki

why men cheat

Dec 04, 2006 17:30

from the editor in chief of Men's Health (David Zinczenko) comes Mysteries of the Sexes Explained, a blog that explores "anything and everything that has to do with men, women, sex, and relationships".

his latest entry covers the subject of infidelity. in particular, he tries to explain why men cheataccording to david, the top reasons are ( Read more... )

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Comments 12

huong December 5 2006, 01:45:55 UTC

my love,
come to the other side with me.
sincerely,
your hetero life partner.

miki December 6 2006, 00:20:27 UTC

you know i'm there already. durr!

btw, did you like be tien's position?

huong December 6 2006, 03:22:29 UTC

woman, i FELL OFF MY CHAIR. i can't believe gravity keeps her up like that. SO.FUCKING.ADORABLES!

1ragincajun December 5 2006, 02:16:26 UTC

because shit gets routine and they can't romance their lover anymore ... and they don't have the guts to make it work with the one they're with, so they try to find this so called interesting life on the outside.
Why can't we talk about what the fuck is destroying the relationship ... why are we so scared?

miki December 6 2006, 00:21:21 UTC

somebody suggested that we should talk about why it's considered wrong to cheat vs. why people cheat.

people tend to be scared of what's close to them. women especially have a hard time letting go.

lexxy_pie December 5 2006, 03:12:12 UTC

because women are psychotic. so if you cheat on one, then you'll have two psychotic women at once, and then they cancel each other out, so you're left in a sorta-kinda sane relationship.

ellemphatic December 5 2006, 03:52:30 UTC

brilliant.

makimonster December 5 2006, 05:06:03 UTC

I agree w/ you. Men like him are just trying to make cheating more socially acceptable to them, it's like a giant fraternity that girls can't get into.

S.

miki December 6 2006, 00:22:48 UTC

Genius!

We should have a giant sorority that guys can't get into with naked pillow fights and everything. YOW!

makimonster December 6 2006, 00:28:33 UTC

you might be on to something there!! =)

S.

akeefer December 6 2006, 07:30:02 UTC

His entries do sound a little too much like excuses. That said, I don't think he's particularly far off base with any of his "reasons." I think he misses another big one, though, or at least understates it with his last, terrible iPod analogy: sexual conquest is a power trip, an ego boost, and an adrenaline rush for most guys, and it's something that's hard to replace in a stable, committed relationship. It's something all guys need to learn to get over, but it takes some people a while to get there ( ... )