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mexicanthunder

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Jan 13, 2006 16:14

It is very amazing how fast life can change for a family ( Read more... )

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aud0528 January 13 2006, 22:29:46 UTC

Parker,

I am so sorry that I wasn't able to get to Battle Creek last weekend. Unfortunately by the time I found out about the arrangements I had no chance of getting down there. But know that I love you, and miss you and my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

mexicanthunder January 14 2006, 04:37:00 UTC

Oh I know hun... I am sorry I didn't call you back... just got really sick of talking to people on the phone. And yes I know you love me and I love you too...

lizbit January 14 2006, 06:17:33 UTC

Wow Parker, i'm so sorry. I know we haven't talked in a really long time, but i do care about you. If you ever need anything, please let me know.

~Liz

mexicanthunder January 17 2006, 04:28:10 UTC

Thanks Liz... how's life treating you?

lizbit January 17 2006, 04:33:17 UTC

Alright, i've had a few setbacks recently, but i'm dealing with them.

wynoah January 16 2006, 15:38:01 UTC

Parker,

There are no words. No words at all. Please know you are in my prayers.
I lost my father too. It's the most horrible thing in the world. I miss him so much now, even so many years later. The pain hurts now, and life seems so black, but I promise you, it WILL get better. You'll never forget him, never stop missing him, but that gut-renching pain will eventually fade away.
If you ever need to talk, I am around.
AIM: SkiVixen624
Yahoo mail: SkiVixen624@yahoo.com

*bighugs*

Emily

mexicanthunder January 17 2006, 04:30:49 UTC

you know as everything was going on I realized that there was nothing anyone could say... even though I was always asked how I was doing... I just wanted to slap those people and say HOW DO YOU THINK I AM DOING... but I didn't. And thank you for sharing what you have gone through... one of my friends lost his mother... its nice to have people to talk to who know what your feeling.

Hugs back
Parker

wynoah January 18 2006, 03:51:49 UTC

My biggest pet peeve would be when people would tell me, "I know how you feel," when in truth, they had no idea how I felt. I just wanted to spit back, "no, you dont," but of course that is rude. So instead, I let them try to make me feel better. One person actually told me, "I know how you feel, my Grandmother died." Well, when your Grandma dies, yes, that is horrible, that is so sad. But you're supposed to die when you're old. You're not supposed to leave before your time.

My Dad was my buddy. He was such a beautiful soul. I'm getting married in 3 months, and he won't walk me down the asile. My mom needs him. My sister does too. But you do the best with what life gives you, no matter how much it sucks. People ask me, "How do you get through it?" I say, "You have no choice, you just have to."

As I said before, I am always here. I mean it, don't hesitate to contact me.

yeah... divincischild January 25 2006, 03:09:32 UTC

i can't believe that pappa is gone...it still doesn't seem real to me. I am so sorry for you bro. As bad as i hurt inside i know it must pale in comparrison to yours. I want you to know just what your father meant to me. He was everything i ever wanted and needed my dad to be. I could talk to him about anything, knowing he would understand and listen. I loved his sense of humor. No one could make me laugh more than he could. There was not a time when i didn't look foward to seeing him. I loved him like one of my own and i always will. My heart bleeds for your family, as they have so quickly become part of mine. I look foward to the day i can call you brother in law. God...i know saying life isn't fair isn't good enough...i love you bro and should you ever need to...you know this shoulder is yours.